About this Event
Edinburgh's coziest, quirkiest dating mixer.
Made for sapphics in their 40s, 50s and beyond, because dating doesn't stop at 35.
Tired of the "digital meat market"? Ready to meet sapphics IRL without the awkward 3-minute timers or the "What do you do for a living?" resume talk?
Sapphic Spark is our signature antidote to swipe fatigue. We’ve traded the high-pressure speed dating model for a playful, intentional, and slightly magical space where you can flirt with your actual personality.
Whether you’re a shy Blooming Petal, a confident Radiant Heart, or a Guarded Gem taking a brave first step, you are the guest of honor here.
📓 THE FLOW OF THE NIGHT
- 6:15 PM | Spark Up: Welcome drinks and soft mingling. Greeted by Michelle and Tri-chan (our resident rainbow dinosaur wingwoman).
- 6:30 PM | Curated Icebreakers: No "elevator pitches" allowed. We begin with introductions and icebreakers that are carefully curated to get you talking to others and finding out more about them in a way that feels natural and easy.
- 7:30 PM | The Game Selection & Deep Connection: Dive into our curated library of activities designed to bridge the gap. We feature games that are:
- Slightly Physical: To get you moving and out of your head.
- Mental: To get the conversation flowing and the laughter started.
- The Deep Dive: Finally, dependent on the vibe we may play our custom-made LGBTQ+ conversation decks. These aren't your typical hetero-coded card games; they're designed to help you share your history, your quirks, and your best "endeavours" (like that time you wrote a rap song just to impress a crush!).
- 9:15 PM | The Glow-On: Still feeling the spark? The space is ours to keep the vibe going for an optional after-party. No need to rush off—just more time for those who want to stay, chat, and enjoy the atmosphere.
🎁 YOUR TICKET INCLUDES
- Hosting by Michelle & Tri-chan: Your dedicated facilitators and plushie wing-triceratops.
- Co-hosted with Sapphic Circle
- Our Custom Games: Vetted prompts that bypass the small talk.
- Curated Ice Breaker Library: Full access to our unique range of physical and mental games.
- A Safe & Inclusive Space: A vetted, step-free access venue in the city .
- Immediate Peace of Mind: LGBTQ+ safe space!
💍 UPGRADE: Spark + Signal Ring — £79 (ring usually £69)
One ring, two signals. Heart tip out = #QueerlyAvailable. Heart tip in = taken or not looking. No apps required.
Two colourways, made for all sapphics — pick the one that feels like you:
• Pearlescent Rose: soft pink opal & mother of pearl
• Crimson Embrace: bold red agate & carnelian
Adjustable sterling silver, fitted on the night. Designed in Scotland.
📝 BEFORE THE NIGHT
After booking, you’ll receive a short dating profile questionnaire. Please complete it by 2 days before so we can thoughtfully suggest people you might click with on the night. Your answers are only seen by Michelle and are deleted after the event.
💬 HEAR FROM THE HEARTS
We are incredibly proud to hold 5-star reviews on Google. Here is what our community is saying:
- “Such a lovely, friendly atmosphere. So much better than a dating app!” – Fiona
- “A safe, inclusive, and much more relaxed experience than speed dating.” – Eleanor
👉 Read all our 5-star reviews here!
💘 CLAIM YOUR SPOT
Don’t let love wait. Join the intentional dating movement for the emotionally honest, playfully curious, and connection-ready queers of Scotland.
18+ | Inclusive of all Sapphic expressions | Non-binary inclusive | Step-free access
✨ Come curious. Leave connected. ✨
Agenda
🕑: 06:15 PM
Sip welcome drinks and mingle.
🕑: 07:15 PM
Team challenges to break the ice
🕑: 07:45 PM
Refresh, recharge, and chat freely
Info: Break and game times can vary!
🕑: 08:00 PM
Dive into games like back-to-back painting, charades, tower of doom and more
🕑: 09:15 PM
End but you can keep the vibes alive at our optional after-party
Event venue & nearby stays
The Fox and Faun, 101 Shandwick Place, Edinburgh, United Kingdom
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