About this Event
đ TENDING THE INNER FIRE
We invite you to join us for a day of self-exploration, inquiry, and embodiment.
We will explore three core shifts that enable men to harness their true power & experience freedomâ
In intimacy
In relationships
And in life
đżWHY THIS MATTERS NOW
A lot of men are quietly struggling with the same thing:
How to feel grounded in themselves
How to access their masculine energy
How to show up fullyâwithout overthinking, forcing, or holding back.
And insteadâ
We get caught in patterns.
Second-guessing
Disconnecting
Trying to get it right
Or avoiding it altogether
This day is about becoming more grounded, present, and clear.
⥠WHAT THE DAY INCLUDES
Weâll be working in a way that invites self-connection and self-leadership.
Thereâll be:
- Guided practices to help you land in your body and connect to your power
- Self-inquiry to bring awareness to your patterns
- Space for honest sharing and reflection with other men
đș WHAT YOUâLL LEAVE WITH
By the end of the day, youâll have:
- Greater clarity on your patterns and where you lose yourself
- Practical tools to centre yourself & ground your energy
- Deep connection with yourself and a community of men
đ BONUS: INTEGRATION CALL
After the workshop, youâll be able to sign up for a 1-to-1 integration call, a space to:
- Reflect on whatâs shifted
- Get support as you apply it in your life
- Stay connected to the work
đŹ WHAT MEN ARE SAYING
âI wish this work had been available to me as a young man.â
â George
âThis space felt incredibly well held and safe. I was able to go to places I wouldnât normally go â and feel supported the whole way through.ââ Sam N
âSince doing this work, I feel more grounded, more present, and more confident â especially in intimacy. Iâm no longer in my head⊠Iâm actually there.â â Daniel R
YOUR FACILITATORS
In 2025, Alex MacKain and Dirk Plas launched The Menâs Lodge, the new home for our work with men.
This work matters to us! We have both put a combined 30+ years into living it, studying it, and practising it.
In short, our Menâs Work is about:
- Embodying our true power & authentic expression
- Deepening our intimacy and relationships
- Cultivating and harnessing sexual-creative energy for inner and outer freedom
- Creating a world to which we all want to belong
More about us and our work here: https://the-mens-lodge.com/
đ DETAILS
Location: Queen's Wood Cafe | 42 Muswell Hill Road,
Highgate, N10 3JP
Date: Sunday 17th May
Time: 10:30-17:30
If you have further questions or would like to attend but are challenged financially, please reach out directly: [email protected]
Event Venue & Nearby Stays
Queen's Wood Cafe, 42 Muswell Hill Road, London, United Kingdom
GBP 48.38 to GBP 96.05












