Tending the Inner Fire - Master your Energy in Intimacy & in Life

Sun May 17 2026 at 10:30 am to 05:30 pm UTC+01:00

Queen's Wood Cafe | London

The Men's Lodge
Publisher/HostThe Men's Lodge
Tending the Inner Fire - Master your Energy in Intimacy & in Life
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Unlock your masculine energy and lead with presence, clarity & positive power
About this Event

🜂 TENDING THE INNER FIRE

We invite you to join us for a day of self-exploration, inquiry, and embodiment.

We will explore three core shifts that enable men to harness their true power & experience freedom—

In intimacy
In relationships
And in life



🌿WHY THIS MATTERS NOW

A lot of men are quietly struggling with the same thing:

How to feel grounded in themselves
How to access their masculine energy
How to show up fully—without overthinking, forcing, or holding back.

And instead—

We get caught in patterns.

Second-guessing
Disconnecting
Trying to get it right

Or avoiding it altogether

This day is about becoming more grounded, present, and clear.



⚡ WHAT THE DAY INCLUDES

We’ll be working in a way that invites self-connection and self-leadership.

There’ll be:

  • Guided practices to help you land in your body and connect to your power
  • Self-inquiry to bring awareness to your patterns
  • Space for honest sharing and reflection with other men



đŸ”ș WHAT YOU’LL LEAVE WITH

By the end of the day, you’ll have:

  • Greater clarity on your patterns and where you lose yourself
  • Practical tools to centre yourself & ground your energy
  • Deep connection with yourself and a community of men



🎁 BONUS: INTEGRATION CALL

After the workshop, you’ll be able to sign up for a 1-to-1 integration call, a space to:

  • Reflect on what’s shifted
  • Get support as you apply it in your life
  • Stay connected to the work



💬 WHAT MEN ARE SAYING

“I wish this work had been available to me as a young man.”
— George


“This space felt incredibly well held and safe. I was able to go to places I wouldn’t normally go — and feel supported the whole way through.”— Sam N


“Since doing this work, I feel more grounded, more present, and more confident — especially in intimacy. I’m no longer in my head
 I’m actually there.” — Daniel R



YOUR FACILITATORS

In 2025, Alex MacKain and Dirk Plas launched The Men’s Lodge, the new home for our work with men.

This work matters to us! We have both put a combined 30+ years into living it, studying it, and practising it.

In short, our Men’s Work is about:

  • Embodying our true power & authentic expression
  • Deepening our intimacy and relationships
  • Cultivating and harnessing sexual-creative energy for inner and outer freedom
  • Creating a world to which we all want to belong

More about us and our work here: https://the-mens-lodge.com/



📍 DETAILS

Location: Queen's Wood Cafe | 42 Muswell Hill Road,
Highgate, N10 3JP
Date: Sunday 17th May
Time: 10:30-17:30


If you have further questions or would like to attend but are challenged financially, please reach out directly: [email protected]

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Event Venue & Nearby Stays

Queen's Wood Cafe, 42 Muswell Hill Road, London, United Kingdom

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GBP 48.38 to GBP 96.05

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