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You're invited to Kathryn's monthly gathering at La Lieff Wines in Santa Barbara for an evening of authentic connection, reflection, and meaningful conversation.Each month, Kathryn hosts a free gathering where you're invited to pause, reflect, and connect through thoughtful conversation about the transitions, decisions, and "next chapters" we all face.
And this November, we're questioning two little words that can have an extraordinary amount of power over our lives.
"I can't."
I don't have the time.
I can't afford it.
I'm too busy.
It's not practical.
Maybe someday.
Sound familiar?
We all have very real responsibilities, financial obligations, and schedules that seem to fill themselves before we've even had a chance to decide what matters most.
And sometimes, those limitations are exactly what they appear to be.
But sometimes?
"I can't" is simply a story we've been telling ourselves for so long that we've stopped questioning whether it's true.
Perhaps there's a trip you've always wanted to take.
A business you've dreamed of starting.
A career change you've been considering.
A class you've wanted to take.
Or simply something that would bring more joy, meaning, or adventure into your life.
And every time the possibility comes up, you tell yourself the same thing.
I don't have the time.
I don't have the money.
But here's where Kathryn gets curious.
How do you KNOW?
What if the question isn't whether you have enough time or money, but what you've decided is worth making time or money FOR?
Together, we'll explore:
✨ The opportunities and experiences you've been putting off because of time or money
✨ How to distinguish genuine limitations from assumptions you haven't questioned
✨ What your calendar and spending decisions reveal about your priorities
✨ The difference between "I can't" and "I haven't decided"
✨ What might become possible if you gave yourself permission to reconsider what matters most
Because sometimes the numbers don't change.
But the way we see our possibilities does.
And that can change everything.
📅 November 18, 2026
⏰ 4:30–6:00 PM
📍 La Lieff Wines, Santa Barbara
Expect:
✨ A warm, welcoming space for honest reflection and meaningful conversation
✨ Thought-provoking questions from Next Chapter Coach Kathryn R. Martin
✨ Genuine connection with thoughtful women navigating their own Crossroad Moments
✨ A little laughter, a lot of curiosity, and perhaps some unexpected self-intel
Just bring yourself (and a friend!)
All are welcome!
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La Lieff, 210 Gray Ave, Santa Barbara, CA 93101-1811, United States
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