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Why Do I Keep Attracting the Same Kind of Relationships?

  • 400 Main St · Saint John
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Why Do I Keep Attracting the Same Kind of Relationships?
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Tired of chasing someone who pulls away? Learn what you keep attracting, and how to finally have the love you actually want. Free.
About this Event

Free 3-hour in-person workshop. Saint John. Fifteen seats.

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Tired of chasing someone who pulls away?

Tired of losing yourself in every relationship?

Tired of giving everything and still not being chosen?

Do your relationships keep failing the same way?

Do you keep asking yourself, what is wrong with me?

Nothing is wrong with you.

But you keep attracting the same kind of person. Again and again. And until that changes, the next one will look different and end the same way.

This is for you if:

  • You keep attracting emotionally unavailable people
  • You chase when they pull away, and you hate that you do it
  • You over-give, over-explain, and try harder every time
  • You make yourself small so they stay
  • You leave before they can leave you
  • You are tired of begging to be loved

What you are really afraid of:

  • That it happens again with the next one
  • That you have to start over
  • That you end up alone
  • That nobody ever chooses you

What you walk out with:

  • What you are doing that keeps attracting the same kind of person
  • What to change in yourself, in plain steps
  • How to spot it early, on a first date, not six months in
  • How to stop over-giving without going cold
  • Knowing your worth, and no longer settling

You have already tried to figure this out.

The books. The podcasts. You know your attachment style. You can name exactly what they did.

And you still picked them.

Knowing why has not changed anything. This is three hours of changing it.

How the three hours work

First hour: what you are actually doing, and why it keeps happening.
Next two: what you do differently, starting that day.

You work. Alone, in pairs, and together. No slides. No sitting at the back.

Led by Siddharth Das

TEDx speaker. ICF-certified coach. This work has reached over 100,000 people online.

I have worked with people across North America, Europe and Asia. I live in Saint John. On 20 September it happens here, in a room.

Sunday 20 September · 10:00am to 1:00pm
ConnexionWorks, 400 Main Street, Saint John

Free · 15 seats · open to everyone


Agenda

🕑: 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM
Seeing the pattern

Info: Arrival and settling in, then straight into the first piece of work. How a pattern forms and why it survives everything you throw at it, taught from what is live in the room.


🕑: 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM
Naming it

Info: Finding your own loop, working alone and in pairs. Then naming the identity holding it in place. Short break in the middle.


🕑: 12:00 PM - 01:00 PM
Sitting underneath it

Info: A guided meditation to sit beneath the story instead of inside it, and what to do with all of this on Monday morning.


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