About this Event
The Relational Crucible: Integrative Couples Therapy
2 day course 9 & 10 January 2027 at Physis Scotland, Edinburgh
With Lohani Noor, UKCP, MSc
When a couple comes into the room, the client isn't either of them. It's the pattern between them. This two-day course gives trainee and qualified therapists three ways of seeing that pattern: Transactional Analysis for how partners' scripts lock together, Gestalt for tracking contact as it happens, and a biopsychosocial frame for working with sex and intimacy.
Day one: Scripts, contracts and the relational field
- Life scripts, interlocking scripts and partner choice
- Ego states and life positions in couple transactions
- Contracting at initial, therapeutic and process levels
- Heteronormative and mono-normative assumptions in the therapy room
- Transference and countertransference enactments
- The Gestalt infinity process and the cycle of contact
- The drama triangle, triangulation and intergenerational patterns
Day two: The body, sexuality and integration
- Biopsychosocial assessment and trauma-informed sexual history taking
- Low desire, desire discrepancy and erotic deadness as relational patterns
- Gendered scripts, infidelity, and power in a couple's sexual life
- Integrating script analysis and Gestalt experiments in practice
- The therapist's own script, and co-therapy
- GSRD, high conflict couples, separation, and ethical practice
Short teaching inputs, experiential work in triads, case vignettes and small group work, with time to bring your own cases. You don't need prior TA or Gestalt training. Everyone receives a full course handbook with assessment tools, formulation templates and a reading list.
Your trainer
Lohani Noor is the founding director of ThIRST, the Institute for Relational and Sexual Therapies. A UKCP registered psychotherapist and accredited member of COSRT, she holds a four-year diploma in TA psychotherapy and an MSc in Psychosexual Therapies. She trains COSRT members regularly and is the author of Rationale for Psychosexual Therapies: 100 Key Points and Techniques (2026).
Details
- Physis Scotland, 22 Drumsheugh Gardens, Edinburgh
- 14 hours CPD, certificate provided
Event venue
Physis Scotland, 22 Drumsheugh Gardens, Edinburgh, United Kingdom
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