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Sarah Hepola: The Only Thing There Is to Want

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Sarah Hepola: The Only Thing There Is to Want
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Join us for a release event with New York Times bestselling author Sarah Hepola, discussing her new memoir THE ONLY THING THERE IS TO WANT.
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This event will be hosted at The Strand at Columbus Ave. located at 450 Columbus Ave.


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The New York Times bestselling author of Blackout excavates the romantic entanglements that defined her adulthood—an electrifying and unflinching account of the ways we choose love, it chooses us, and how those choices build a life.

“I’m scared I only want what I can’t have,” I said.

“Oh baby,” he said. “It’s the only thing there is to want.”

Sarah Hepola wanted so much: a big career; travel and adventure; deep relationships; passion. Having realized so many of those desires, she also grieved the ways her life was not what she’d always imagined it would be. Did I want too much, she wondered. Did I make the wrong choices? Love the wrong people?

In The Only Thing There is To Want, Hepola revisits three complicated love affairs from her past, seeking to understand how they might have kept her from the life she’d envisioned, but also made her who she is. Examining her own decisions, Hepola probes the question: Is love ever really a choice?

This dazzling portrait of the mirages of modern romance captures the paradox of desire: wanting propels us forward and holds us back. Funny, achingly tender, and fearlessly intimate, The Only Thing There Is to Want is about discovering the beauty in the life you’ve built.


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Sarah Hepola’s essays have appeared in the New York Times magazine, Texas Monthly, The Atlantic, The Cut, Elle, The Guardian, and Salon, where she was a longtime editor. Her first book, Blackout: Remembering the Things I Drank To Forget, was a New York Times bestseller. She’s the creator and host of the Texas Monthly narrative podcast America’s Girls, about the Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders, and the co-host of the weekly culture podcast, Smoke ‘Em If You Got ‘Em. Hepola lives in Dallas, Texas where she is a staff writer for the Dallas Morning News.

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The Strand, 450 Columbus Avenue, New York, United States

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