About this Event
This Hit Me Up event is open to the public, 21+.
About the Class
Boundaries aren't just about saying no. They're about understanding your needs, honoring your values, and building relationships where you can show up authentically without losing yourself.
In this discussion-based class, we'll explore self-advocacy, rejection sensitivity, people-pleasing, and the fear of disappointing others. We'll talk about using boundaries to build trust, navigate conflict, communicate your needs, and find the balance between healthy compromise and self-sacrifice.
Learn how to advocate for yourself with confidence, respect the boundaries of others, and create space for deeper, healthier connections.
In this class, we'll cover:
- Overcoming people-pleasing, rejection sensitivity, and the fear of disappointing others
- Advocating for yourself without guilt or overexplaining
- Building trust and intimacy through healthy boundaries
- Navigating conflict and communicating your needs with confidence
- Finding the balance between compromise and self-sacrifice
- Setting boundaries without weaponizing them
- Learning to give and receive a no with care and respect
About Your Instructor
Mx. Fox is a femme domme, kink educator, and relationship & intimacy coach with nearly a decade of experience practicing and teaching in the NYC scene. Their work focuses on helping people of all experience levels build confidence, express themselves shamelessly, and create hotter, safer, and more connected play and relationships.
BIPOC and Equity Ticketing
The full fee reflects the true costs of running the event, including supplies and compensating facilitators for their labor. If you are able to afford a full price ticket without experiencing financial hardship, please choose this option. For those who identify as BIPOC, and/or those who cannot afford a full fee ticket are welcome to use our discount code EQUITY26 at checkout.
FAQs
FAQ: what should I bring?
A notebook or something to write or take notes in
FAQ: any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)
This class is good for all levels
FAQ: what should I wear?
Come as you are
FAQ: can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?
Solo is fine
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✨Location: 120 Walker St in Lower Manhattan. The space has an elevator. Please email [email protected] if you need any accessibility accommodations.
✨Full vaccination is required. While we recommend getting the booster shots, we are not verifying them at this time.
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120 Walker St floor 6, 120 Walker Street, New York, United States
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