About this Event
Gay Speed Datin San Diego has created 165 total connections to date!
40 romantic matches 💛 !
125 platonic matches 💜 !
Now we are back for round three, this time for gay and queer men ages 25+.
Physical attraction on a dating app does not compare to hearing someone's laugh, noticing the energy they bring into a room, or having a real conversation about compatibility. Gay Speed Dating San Diego is built around giving gay men the space to create organic chemistry. No headless torsos, no egos behind keyboards, and no algorithm telling you who you should like.
You will have three ways to meet other guys while enjoying delicious artisanal wines at the beautiful Négociant Winery in Hillcrest.
3 Ways to Meet People
- Ice Breakers - Organized group activities to warm up the room and get everyone talking.
- Mini-Dates - 10 one-on-one conversations, just long enough to feel a spark.
- Open Social - Free mixing at the end of the night. Find your matches and keep it going.
You choose your matches after the mini-dates and we share them only when it is mutual. If you do not get a match, do not sweat it. There is plenty of time to get to know the other guys during the open social.
How the Night Works
6:30 PM: Check-in & Open Mingling
Grab a drink, settle in, and meet the guys.
7:00 PM: Introductions & Ice Breakers
We will kick things off together as a group to warm up our social skills.
7:30 PM: Mini-Date Rounds
Rotate through 8 mini-dates, each just long enough to know if there is a spark.
8:30 PM: Open Social
Rounds are done. Grab a glass, find your matches, and keep the night going.
9:30 PM: Closing
Say goodnight and go home... or don't 😏
Tickets
Early Bird - $25 Through August 20th
General Admission - $30 August 21st to July 25th
At the Door - $35 August 29th
Good to Know
🗓 Wednesday, September 30 · 6:30 to 9:30 PM
📍 Négociant Winery, Hillcrest, San Diego
📱 Phones required for participation
🍷 Wine available for purchase
🎟 Capped at 44 attendees, this event will sell out!
✅ Gay and queer men ages 25+
For more information on why we do age groupings and to provide feedback, please check out the link and survey below!
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Event venue & nearby stays
Négociant Winery, 1263 University Avenue, San Diego, United States
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