About this Event
About this event
"We feel like roommates." "I'm scared they'll leave." "I can't stop overthinking." "I feel alone even when we're together."
Disconnection wears many faces. Sometimes it's drifting apart. Sometimes it's jealousy, clinging, or checking their phone. Sometimes it's pulling away before you can get hurt. Underneath them all is the same thing: fear asking to be met.
Disconnection is the symptom, not the problem. In this class you'll learn to treat that feeling as a red flag pointing to something you've been blind to. Instead of reacting to it, you'll learn to follow it back to its root and choose love from a place of security instead of scarcity.
Come as you are, partnered or single. Couples will practice reconnecting with each other. Singles will learn to build security from within, so love no longer depends on someone else's behavior. All practices are fully clothed and non-sexual, and every partnered practice is an invitation, never an expectation.
In this class you'll:
- Learn the "red flag" practice: how to stop and work with jealousy, anxiety, and disconnection instead of acting on them
- Discover the fear underneath the distance, and what it's really asking for
- Practice simple tantric reconnection rituals, like synchronized breath and heart-centered presence
- Learn how to create security within yourself, so you stop outsourcing it to your partner
- Leave with a daily reconnection practice to keep love secure
This class is for you if:
- You and your partner have drifted and want to find your way back
- Jealousy, overthinking, or fear of loss are running your relationship
- You're in an open or polyamorous relationship and want to feel secure in it
- You're single and want to stop repeating anxious patterns in love
This is the fourth evening in the Relationship Skills Update Series leading to Sequoia's Valentine's Tantra Relationship Workshop, February 12–14, 2027. Attendees receive first access to Inner Temple pricing for the weekend, and every class you attend takes $5 per person off your workshop registration, whether you register single or as a couple.
Event venue & nearby stays
Harmonizing Sanctuary, LLC, 2880 Soquel Avenue, Santa Cruz, United States
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