About this Event
Hosted by Victoria & Ryan, local ENM enthusiasts, in collaboration with
Join us at Dearly Beloved in Chicago for an unforgettable ENM Social Club gathering where fall fashion meets sexy, spooky-chic vibes. Think elevated autumn looks, a little Halloween magic, sultry style, and an atmosphere made for flirting, mingling, and meeting fascinating people.
Whether you're experienced in ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationships, exploring non-monogamy for the first time, or simply curious about connecting with like-minded people, this is your invitation to step into a welcoming, inclusive, and judgment-free space.
Come solo, with a partner, as a couple, or with your favorite people. However you identify and wherever you are on your relationship journey, there's a place for you here!
🖤 THE VIBE: FALL FASHION × SEXY × SPOOKY × CHIC
Pull out your favorite fall fits and bring your most confident, flirt-forward energy. Think sexy autumn fashion, dark romantic details, mysterious Halloween-inspired touches, and chic statement pieces. Dress to impress, express yourself, and have a little fun with the theme!
🥂 EVENT HIGHLIGHTS
✨ A Gorgeous Chicago Venue
Experience the stylish atmosphere of Dearly Beloved, the perfect backdrop for an evening of great conversations, new connections, and fall-inspired fashion.
🍸 Happy Hour Cocktails
Enjoy $10 happy hour cocktails from 7:00 PM to 8:00 PM. Arrive early, grab a drink, and get the evening started!
💬 Fun Icebreakers
Not sure how to make the first move? We've got you! Participate in playful, engaging icebreakers designed to make meeting new people easier, more comfortable, and a lot more fun.
🖤 Mix, Mingle & Flirt
Enjoy a flirt-forward atmosphere where you can be yourself, explore possibilities, and connect with people who understand that relationships don't have to look the same for everyone.
💋 WHO SHOULD ATTEND?
Our events are for anyone interested in ethical non-monogamy, alternative relationship styles, and authentic connections, including:
- Swingers
- People in open relationships
- Polyamorous individuals and couples
- Monogamish couples
- Throuples and other relationship configurations
- Kinksters
- Relationship anarchists
- People who are new to non-monogamy
- Curious, questioning, and experienced non-monogamous folks
- Singles, couples, and anyone exploring what connection can look like
If ethical non-monogamy resonates with you, we'd love to meet you!
Tickets will also be available at the door for $45/pp.
🗓️ EVENT DETAILS AT A GLANCE
- Date: Friday, October 30, 2026
- Time: 7:00 PM – 11:00 PM
- Location: Dearly Beloved, Chicago
- Happy Hour: $10 cocktails from 7:00 PM – 8:00 PM
- Theme: Fall Fashion - Sexy, Spooky & Chic
- Dress Code: Dress to impress!
🖤 COME FOR THE VIBE. STAY FOR THE CONNECTIONS.
Whether you're hoping to expand your social circle, meet potential partners, explore new relationship dynamics, or simply enjoy a stylish night out with open-minded people, ENM Social Club is the place to be.
Come curious. Come confident. Come ready to flirt, laugh, and connect. You never know who you might meet!
✨ Ready to join us? Secure your tickets and get ready for a sexy-spooky-chic night out in Chicago!
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PLEASE NOTE:
- Photography & Video: Photos and videos may be taken during the event for future promotional purposes. Faces will be blurred unless given permission to show.
- Ticket Policy: All tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable. No exceptions.
- Right of Admission: We reserve the right to refuse entry.
We can't wait to see your fall fashion, meet your fabulous selves, and make some unforgettable connections! 🍂🖤🥂
Event venue & nearby stays
Dearly Beloved, 900 North Franklin Street, Chicago, United States
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