Café con Pam turns 10. A pajama slumber party in La Mesa with a live workshop, a live podcast recording, chef food, and mocktails.About this Event
Saturday, October 10, 2026 · 6:00 to 10:00 PM
The Well at Grossmont Center, La Mesa
Café con Pam turns ten, and we're celebrating in pajamas.
Diezvelada is one night in La Mesa: a live workshop, a live podcast recording, chef-prepared slumber party food, a mocktail bar, and a room full of first-generation women who understand the specific weight of being the first, the only, or the one who makes it look easy.
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Your ticket includes
- Future Tuesday, a live workshop taught by Pam Covarrubias
- The Unmuted Room, a live podcast recording built from the room, live coaching by Pam.
- The first edition of the Future Tuesday journal, plus your own pen so you can write the evidence.
- Chef-prepared pajamada food and a mocktail bar
- A goodie bag stacked with goods from amazing businesses
- A live virtual debrief a few weeks after the event
About the workshop
What if your future wasn't something you had to chase, but something you could begin remembering?
Future Tuesday is the workshop Pam wishes she'd had ten years ago. Through guided journaling, subconscious reprogramming, practical somatic tools, and intentional reflection, you'll learn how to make your vision familiar enough that your mind and body move toward it with certainty. You leave with an identity your nervous system can recognize, trust, and return to.
About the live episode
The Unmuted Room is recorded live, mastermind style, because this time, you are the guest. You bring the real questions, the ones you'd normally save for a paid room, and Pam coaches on the record.
Who this night is for
First-generation women, founders, and executives who have done the strategy, the courses, and the planning, and still go quiet right when it's time to take up space.
Good to know
- Pajamas required. Cozy, cute, whatever pajamas means to you.
- Bring a yoga mat, a cozy blanket, and a pillow if you want one. Chairs are available for anyone who'd rather sit.
- Alcohol free. Mocktails all night.
- No childcare at this event.
- Parking at Grossmont Center. Use the north lots, they're better lit at night.
- The night is photographed, filmed, and recorded for the podcast.
Your host
Pam Covarrubias is a first-generation Latina leadership coach, speaker, and the creator and host of Café con Pam, now in its tenth year. She helps first-generation leaders release Calladita Culture®, the conditioning that taught them to stay quiet, small, and accommodating. Her work starts where most coaching skips: the body. She became the coach her mother needed.
Nos vemos en pajamas.
Stay Shining,
Pam
Event venue
The Well Community for Women, 5500 Grossmont Center Drive, La Mesa, United States
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