About this Event
Join death care professional Alexis Hart for an open gathering where SJWC members and friends come together in a safe, welcoming space to share thoughts, questions, and stories about death over tea, treats, and good company.
Attend one or all of the Death Cafes at the Clubhouse this fall on Wedesday, September 9, Wednesday October 14, and Monday, November23. Death Cafe at SJWC is open to all, regardless of gender.
There’s no agenda, no pressure, and no expected outcome. Just honest conversation, supportive listening, and a chance to connect with others who are curious about life’s one certainty. Whether you’re new to the topic or have deep reflections to share, all are welcome!
The Death Cafe at SJWC is offered as a completely free event, in a respectful and confidential setting. There’s no intention to guide you toward any particular belief or action; just an invitation to explore, learn, and simply be present.
Come as you are. Bring your curiosity. Cake and conversation await.
Death Cafes occur around the world. People gather to eat cake, drink tea, and discuss death with the objective of increasing awareness of death and helping people make the most of their (finite) lives. A Death Cafe is a group directed discussion of death with no agenda, objectives or themes. It is a discussion group rather than a grief support or counselling session.
About the Facilitator
Alexis Hart is a seasoned death care professional, grief ritualist, and grief educator. She has over a decade of experience across various facets of end-of-life, grief, and death care. Her extensive background spans mortuary and cemetery services, medical examiner, hospice, and grief support, establishing her as a guiding light during families' darkest moments. Passionate about nature, Alexis seamlessly integrates its healing power into her work, enhancing the support she provides to those in need. She blends ritual, creativity, and compassion to craft meaningful, inclusive spaces where grief is honored as both personal and collective, sacred and transformative. With a deep commitment to inclusivity and healing justice, she helps shape spaces where all stories are honored, and grief becomes a portal for connection, meaning, and transformation. Alexis is deeply honored to educate and serve grieving families as well as communities, offering compassion and expertise throughout their journey.
Event venue & nearby stays
San Jose Woman's Club, 75 South 11th Street, San Jose, United States
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