CONVERGENCE: A Night of Connection, Curiosity, & Conscious Play

Convergence

Where different energies meet — and something warm, alive, and unmistakably real forms between them.

Convergence is part of The Sanctuary Sessions — our monthly BDSM gathering offering an unhurried, intimate space for intentional play that’s deeply personal, connected, and supported by shared trust and surrender.

This is not a chaotic dungeon party.
Not an anonymous free-for-all.

Convergence is curated.
Connection comes first.
Play unfolds naturally from there.

All Sanctuary Sessions — including Convergence — are designed to feel warm, intimate, and quietly seductive. The kind of space where you breathe deeper and settle into yourself.

• Minimal + melodic house and techno create a steady, sensual pulse
• Soft, dim lighting keeps everything warm and flattering
• A comfortable lounge zone supports conversation and gentle aftercare
• An open-plan layout with exposed brick keeps the energy communal and inviting

The atmosphere is slow, intentional, and grounded — never rushed, never overwhelming.

It’s a space where you can connect easily, explore gently, and feel held by the room.

Convergence takes place in a members-based space shaped by our core values: care, intention, and accountability. Membership is not required to attend. Members of The Kink Collective receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions and access to our weekly online gathering, Conscious Conversations, deepening both personal and community connection.

$40 Members | $50 Solo Ticket | $80 Partner Tickets (2)

We begin with light, intentional prompts designed to make meeting others feel natural and relaxed. Warm. Simple. Grounded.

All attendees must arrive before 9:00 PM to participate.

A brief collective grounding to introduce ourselves and name intentions.
Doors close promptly at 9:00 PM to protect the container.

Five curated stations inviting exploration at your own pace.

Watch. Learn. Ask questions. Connect. Play.
Always with consent and clarity.

The tone is intimate rather than intense — open, steady, connected.

• Sexy without pressure
• Social without small talk
• Structured without rigidity
• Playful without performance
• Built for comfort, connection, and conscious kink

Led by Joshua & Cat, The Kink Collective anchors each Sanctuary Session with our guiding philosophy:

People Before Kink.

We hold the container so you can feel safe, grounded, and free to explore in ways that feel aligned and authentic.

📅 Friday, February 13th
⏰ 8:00 PM – 1:00 AM
🚪 Doors close at 9:00 PM

📍 The Sanctuary of East Harlem
113 E 125th St, New York, NY 10035
The black door next to the pizza place
One flight of stairs (not wheelchair accessible)
Please push the door firmly upon arrival

🔞 18+ Adults Only

Bring a snack or drink to share
Wear what makes you feel comfortable and confident
Photos only with explicit consent

$40 Members | $50 Solo Tickets | $80 Couple Tickets (2)

Pay at the door - limited tickets available at the door
Cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle, PayPal.

Event Venue

113 E 125th St #2r, 113 East 125th Street, New York, United States

Concerts, fests, parties, meetups - all the happenings, one place.

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