Connecting Touch Exchange & Social Mixer

• When was the last time you got your touch needs met?
• Are you single or in a relationship and experiencing skin hunger?

Since COVID, so many of us feel lonelier and disconnected and touch deprived, regardless of whether we have others around us in our lives or not. Touch is absolutely crucial for health and wellbeing for all human beings. Touch helps us feel safe, included and regulated. Touch starvation or hunger is a what is called when you don't get as much physical touch as you're used to - or any at all.

And by touch what is referred to is not the intimate/sexual kind,although this has it's value in a loving, intimate relationship. But rather what is being referred to is holding hands, a hug, a cuddle etc...from siblings, friends, children or from a romantic partner too.

If you cannot remember the last time you got your touch needs met in whichever way was significant to you, you can always:

Seek out opportunities for physical contact with loved ones, cuddling with a pet, or engaging in regular massages or even self-soothing activities like taking a bath or wearing comfortable clothing can help alleviate feelings of touch starvation.These are just a few options, but here is another option...Why not in this special event where you can get your touch needs met in a platonic, safe, boundaried group space where everyone is welcome?

📋WHAT IS THIS EVENT ABOUT?

• Connecting Touch is platonic touch(there is no sexual or intimate touch involved at all) and the process is about learning to touch in a healthy, boundaried manner via light touch that allows for the nervous system to co-regulate. At the same time speaking to the other person in a way that allows each to feel seen and heard.Gender balancing is not the focus: we will be rotating in pairs of the opposite sex as well as the same sex too. Connecting Touch will happen within a group setting only, everyone will be fully clothed and be supervised/monitored throughout to ensure the safety of all attendees.

•Upon meeting up there is a 10 minute and greet. After that we will head towards the event venue to start the event. This will involve the social mixer happening at the start of the event or towards the end of the event, where we meet up for an informal chat and have something to eat and/or drink.

•The Connecting Touch Exchange will start after a brief explanation of what is involved.

This event is being run to achieve well-being through platonic touch and connection, empowering communication and practicing asking for what you want. You choose if you want to share nurturing, safe, respectful, platonic touch and comforting connection and with whom.

👍This event will take place in a gorgeous nature setting in Beddington/Wallington, in the Croydon area in South London.

Please be mindful that for any attendees who do not honour the etiquette for respectful Connecting Touch Exchange, (as will be explained on the day) they will be removed from the event and will not be able to join in to any further events run by Connected Exclusive Events.

🔍WHO IS THIS EVENT SUITABLE FOR?

Adult (over 18s) men and women, single or in relationships, that feel touch starved and would like to attend an event where they can get their touch needs met in a safe, boundaried and platonic way, while meeting new people.

This event is for anyone wanting to connect with the great outdoors, themselves and others. This event is great value because it offers a few activities in one event:

• You get to be outdoors which is beneficial for health.
• A Connecting Touch Exchange will be happening during the event . This means that for anyone who is not getting enough touch in their lives, they get their fill of platonic touch. Human touch is extremely important for all aspect of human health.
• The social mixer will happen either at the start of the event or at the end of the event... This is ideal for anyone looking to network, make friends, getting to meet new people etc...

Disclaimer: This event is not suitable for anyone who is easy triggered by touch of any kind or anyone who has severe and complicated mental health issues, whether diagnosed or undiagnosed.

• This event is being run by a Mastery Facilitator, and not a therapist/counsellor etc..or medically trained specialist.Please note that this is not therapy, and is not a substitute for therapy/medical care but is an additional resource for anyone who wants to be more pro-active with their healing.This event is not suitable for anyone who is easy triggered or that has severe and complicated mental health issues, whether diagnosed or undiagnosed.

• Please be aware that as this is an outdoors event, it is weather dependent: read below under FAQ for more details about what happens should the weather not be suitable to run the event outdoors.

Connecting Touch Exchange improves health and wellbeing, while being great fun outdoors ...plus you get to meet some potentially new delightful friends in the process !

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Info: We meet up at the designated meet up point and wait for everyone to arrive before kicking off with the event. Please make sure you arrive no later than 09:10am as after that you will not be able to join in after the Meet and Greet ends and we head off to start the event.

Info: We will move to the venue and start the event. The social mixer will happen either at the start of the event after the Meet and Greet or towards the end of the event.

Event venue

Beddington Village Hall (Meeting Outside/Entrance at the start time for 10 minutes for the Meet and Greet), 1-5 Beddington Lane, Croydon, United Kingdom

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