Before the World Told You Who to BE
Before You Had Words, You Had Needs
Before you had memories, language, or even breath — you had needs.
They were primal. Fundamental. Very Young. Sacred.
Woven into your cells and nervous system.
Forming the foundation of who you would become.
When those longings get triggered—they are the very catalyst to your spiritual awakening and evolution.
This is more than a support group—it’s a space to gently tend to the unmet needs from your earliest beginnings.
So many of us grew up feeling unseen, unsupported, or disconnected. The ache of belonging, of safety, of truly mattering… still lingers.
You’ve probably done the therapy.
You read the books.
You worked on yourself so much.
And yet…
That ache is still there.
The ache of not quite belonging
The loneliness of always shrinking yourself
The fear that if people really knew you, you’d be too much
The exhaustion of abandoning yourself over and over
This is the wound of early beginnings and unmet needs — the one that started before you had words. When no one came. When no one showed up. When the love and safety you needed never arrived.
The real trauma isn't so much what happened but that no one showed up for you when it did.
The Coming Home Circle is where we change that.
Who This Is For:
- This circle is for the Soulful Seekers and the Sacred Misfits:
- The ones who experienced developmental (pre-verbal), birth and attachment trauma, oppressive parenting, neglect and relinquishment.
- The ones who feel ungrounded, even after years of inner work
- The ones who feel isolated, misunderstood, and distrustful of life
- The ones who secretly long to be seen, held, welcomed — just as they are
- If that’s you… you belong here.
What You’ll Experience:
Each 90-minute gathering will include:
- Sharing + discussion — space to speak your truth without fear of rejection
- Embodied practices — somatic therapy, neuroaffective touch, and family constellations
- Themes that meet your deepest longings — safety, trust, love, connection, self-expression, belonging etc...
We gather together on yoga mats, creating a safe circle where you can:
- Be seen
- Be held
- Be welcomed
- Belong
Why This Matters
You’ve been told your whole life to shrink yourself and who to be to fit in.
But true belonging doesn’t come from shrinking — it comes from expanding into who you really are.
When you enter the Coming Home Circle, you’ll begin to…
- Feel safer in your body
- Trust life more deeply
- Express yourself without apology
- Rewrite your earliest beginnings with love
- Finally come home to yourself
If you don’t tend to these unmet needs… they stay.
The triggers.
The self-abandonment.
The loneliness.
The fear of being truly known.
You’ll keep carrying what was never yours to hold.
But when you step into this circle — you begin to create new neural pathways of safety, connection, and trust. You don’t just think about healing… you experience it.
Your Facilitator - Julia Sahalie
I’ve walked this path too.
I know the ache of never feeling quite at home — in family, in community, in my own skin.
Through years of therapy, reading a gazillion books, years of trainings, hypnotherapy and somatic sessions, narcissistic abuse, womb surrounds, daily practices and meditations, I’ve found the practices that bring us back to our essence.
Not fixing. Not forcing. Just remembering.
I jumped off the self-improvement band wagon and it made all the difference.
And now I hold this circle for you.
You don’t have to walk this path alone. This is your invitation to come home—to yourself, and to a community that sees you.
Topics include anything from our Early Primal Experience:
Pre-birth planning conception to early childhood generational trauma and how these experiences affect our attachment patterns today.
We cover:
Unment needs
Unwanted or unplanned pregnancy
Generational Influences
Authority Wounds/Oppressive Parenting
Stressful family dynamics
Chemical & Drug Imprints
Medical Interventions
Twin Loos
Prematurity
Adoption
Unwanted gender
Lack of attachment & bonding
Feeding issues
Separation at birth
Abandonment & Neglect
Postpartum Depression
The Details
When: Every 1st & 3rd Friday of the month
6:30 – 8:00 PM
Location: Mystic Medicine KC 1310 NW Vivion Rd Suite 109, Kansas City, MO 64118
In-person circle — yoga mats provided
Price: $20 / event
Bring a friend: $10 each (because it's sweeter together)
You’ve spent your whole life searching for a place to belong.
This is it.
The Coming Home Circle isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about remembering you.
Come as you are.
Bring a friend.
Let yourself belong.
Event Venue
Mystic Medicine KC, 1310 NW Vivion Rd Suite 109, Kansas City, MO 64118, United States
USD 20.00
