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COLD BEERS. HOT FLASHES.

  • Patina Brewing Co. Brew House & BBQ · Port Coquitlam
  • From CAD 29.36
Jeanell Greene Publisher / Host Jeanell Greene
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COLD BEERS. HOT FLASHES. A fun, interactive date night for couples navigating marriage, midlife & getting older. Laugh, learn, connect & have a beer.
About this Event
COLD BEERS. HOT FLASHES. 🍺🔥
Marriage. Midlife. Getting older. Let’s have a beer.


Let’s face it. Getting older is weird. Things hurt that didn't used to hurt. We walk into rooms and forget why we're there. Our bodies are changing. Energy changes. Sleep changes. Sex changes. Hormones are doing... whatever the hell they're doing.

And somehow, we're supposed to figure all of this out while staying happily married. 😂 Seriously. Why didn’t anyone prepare us for this??



Ever find yourself wondering...
  • “Why don't I feel like myself anymore?”
  • “What the heck is going on with my partner?”
  • “Are we getting older... or getting disconnected?”

Or maybe nothing is terribly wrong. You just miss having FUN together.

Either way, grab your person. We're having a beer and talking about it. 🍺



So... what IS this?

Think date night meets great conversation, with some laughs, a little learning and a beer in your hand.

We'll talk about the wonderfully weird world of midlife and some of the things nobody warned us about: hormones, sleep, stress, changing bodies, desire, communication, aging and intimacy. Basically, all the stuff that can leave you looking at the person you've known for 20 years and wondering, “Who ARE you and what have you done with my husband/wife?” 😂

Through short, practical teaching, playful couple challenges and conversations between the two of you, you'll learn more about what's happening to both of you and how to navigate it together.

You might leave saying, “I understand you better now.” “Okay... THAT explains a lot.” “Why have we never talked about this before?” Or maybe even, “Hey. We're actually pretty damn good together.” ❤️



Is It Me, You... or Midlife?

Excellent question. 😂 We'll explore how hormones, stress, sleep, aging, changing bodies and desire can affect how you feel, communicate, connect and experience each other.

You might discover something new about your partner. You might discover something new about yourself. Or you might just look at each other across the table and say, “Ohhhhhhh. THAT explains a LOT.”

Either way, knowledge helps. And it's a whole lot easier to have these conversations when nobody's in trouble and there's a beer involved. 🍺



And don't worry...

This is NOT couples therapy. No awkward sharing circles. No public confessions. No blaming husbands or wives. And definitely no discussing your deepest marital problems with a room full of strangers. 😂

Most of the conversations happen privately between you and your partner. Come curious. Participate as much or as little as you like. Laugh at yourselves. Learn something. Maybe flirt a little.

You're on a date, after all. ❤️



Who's this for?

Couples in their 40s, 50s and beyond who are figuring out this whole midlife thing together. Things can be great. Things can be weird. Things can be a little disconnected.

You don't need to have a relationship problem to come. You just need a partner you'd like to keep laughing, learning and growing older with.



Your Ticket Includes

🍺 Your first drink❤️ A fun, interactive couples experience😂 Games, laughs & couple challenges💬 Conversations you probably should've had years ago💡 A few “THAT explains it!” moments🎉 Giveaways, contests & prizes

Additional food and drinks will be available for purchase.



Meet Your Host

Hi, I'm Jeanell Greene, Relationship & Marriage Coach and founder of Relationship Roadmap. I help couples understand each other better, communicate differently and keep building the friendship, intimacy and connection that brought them together in the first place.

And yes, I'm navigating this whole midlife adventure too. 😂 I created the kind of relationship event I'd actually want to drag my husband to: useful, honest, funny, no weird stuff.

And there's beer. 🍺



The Details

📅 October 20 | ⏰ 7–9 PM📍 Patina Brewing Co., Port Coquitlam🎟️ $25/person, first drink included

Come around 6:30 PM, grab your drink, order some food and get settled. We'll kick things off around 7 and have you out before 9. (I know it's past your bedtime. lol.).



Because you chose each other to grow old with.

Apparently that includes hot flashes, reading glasses, mystery aches, weird hormones and forgetting why you walked upstairs. 😂

Same people. Different season. Growing older together is inevitable. Growing together is a choice.

And growing old together should still be a hell of a lot of fun. ❤️🍺


Event venue

Patina Brewing Co. Brew House & BBQ, 2332 Marpole Ave., Port Coquitlam, Canada

Tickets CAD 29.36 to CAD 34.94
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