About this Event
Looking for a holiday party for Asian and Asian-American singles in NYC, a friend-making event in NYC, or just a fun winter mixer that isn't another swipe-and-hope situation? This is it. Curated by professional matchmaker Sophie Kaemmerle, this holiday social mixer blends ugly sweater-party energy with real, structured opportunities to connect — whether you're dating, platonic-networking, or both.
Meet East Asian, Southeast Asian, and South Asian American singles in New York City in a curated room. This isn't a crowded bar night or an app. It's a relaxed, intentional singles mixer for Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Vietnamese, Filipino, Taiwanese, Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi, and Sri Lankan professionals in their 30s, 40s, and 50s —all Asian identities welcome— who are ready to meet someone worth their time.
This event is for you if: You're an Asian or Asian American professional in your 30s, 40s, or 50s. You're serious about dating but exhausted by the apps. You want to meet high-quality Asian American singles in person in New York, or you just want to meet a new group of friends.
How it works: the bracelet system
When you arrive, pick your bracelet(s) — wear one, wear both, no judgment either way:
❤️ Red bracelet — Here for the Spark. For anyone open to dating in NYC, flirting, and finding chemistry. Red signals you're open to something romantic.
🟢 Green bracelet — Here for the Friends. Perfect for anyone searching for a new friend group in NYC, new-to-the-city, or just craving more community. Green means "let's talk, no romantic pressure."
Wear both, and you're open to either.
What to expect
- A room full of genuinely interesting people, not just a "meat market" vibe.
- An ugly sweater contest
- A fun, curated playlist
- A structure that actually makes approaching people easier, not weirder.
Whether you're searching for holiday events for singles, fall or winter social mixers in NYC, an ugly sweater party to meet new people, or a smarter way to build your Asian and Asian American community this holiday season — this event is designed by a matchmaking professional who understands how real connection actually happens.
Don't forget to join the FREE singles database before the night starts: https://app.levelconnections.com/m/toi-moi-matchmaking
🎄 Spots are limited — grab your ticket now!
Event venue & nearby stays
Bananas, 174 1st Avenue, New York, United States
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