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LOVE IN LIQUID FORM This edition of Liquid Love is exclusively for people with vu·vas.
Held by one of our own facilitators, Anke Van Mullem (she/her), this space is created by and for vu·va owners.
Liquid Love is a guided, full-body sensory experience with warm oil, blindfolds and consensual, non-sexual touch in a carefully held space. It’s an invitation to drop out of the thinking mind and into pure sensation – at your own pace and on your own terms.
You’ll be invited to meet your body, your boundaries and your yes/no/maybe – without performance or pressure, just presence and connection – before we dive into a bath of warm liquid sensation.
The only question is: what will your experience be, when you are deeply immersed?
WHAT IS LIQUID LOVE
Imagine lying in a cocoon of warmth, blindfolded, with your skin meeting warm oil and an ocean of other oiled bodies in slow, respectful contact. Sounds amazing, right? It is.
After a guided landing, introduction and group connection, we step into a “pool” created from tarp or plastic, pour warmed oil, and let you “swim” and slide across each other’s bodies. You always choose how much contact you want, which areas are a yes, and when you need a pause or more distance.
WHY A VULVA OWNERS CIRCLE?
This edition is designed specifically for vulva owners of all gender identities and pronouns (she/her, he/him, they/them, xe/xem, etc.).
Women and vu·va-owners have long gathered in shared spaces to support, tend and witness one another. In a world that often pits us against each other, this workshop offers something different: a moment to remember that we are all humans together.
Here, we focus on:
- Sister-/siblinghood and solidarity
- Grounded, embodied presence rather than performance
WHAT HAPPENS AT LIQUID LOVE?
Each event is unique, but the structure is consistent:
1° Arrival & Agreements
We arrive together, go through the framework and consent agreements, and answer questions to make sure you feel oriented and informed.
2° Warm-up & Consent Practices
Through group exercises, we build trust in the group and in your own boundaries, so you can feel clearer in your yes/no/maybe.
3° Undressing & Blindfolds
Through a small ritual, you’ll be invited to undress to your own comfort level (naked or partially covered), put on your blindfold, and be guided into the oil space.
4° Liquid Love Journey
With warm oil and guided prompts, you’ll be invited into slow exploration, movement and surrender. You choose how much contact, intensity and stillness you want throughout.
5° Closing & Integration
At the end, you’ll have time to wipe down, re-dress, drink water and briefly land together before heading back out into the world.
There are no showers at the venue, so expect to stay a little oily.
Space-holding & Safety
There will be multiple space holders present to support with practical needs (water, toilet, more towels, oil in the eyes) and to make sure everyone stays within the boundaries. You can always ask for help.
IS LIQUID LOVE A SEXUAL EVENT?
It is body-positive, clothes-optional and touch-based, and can be very pleasurable – but it is not a place to seek partners or act out sexual intentions. It’s a space where your oxytocin levels might go through the roof, while your nervous system stays respected and resourced.
This is not a place for sexual pursuit. Any type of sexual oriented stimulation is not allowed. Instead, see it as an opportunity to experience your sensuality and connection in a liberated way. We ask everyone to respect the boundaries of the space, your own limits, and other participants’ individual choices around touch and nakedness.
What if I become aroused?
Arousal is a natural response to touch and connection. If arousal arises, it is welcome as a sensation in your body – we simply don’t act on it sexually in this context.
WHO CAN PARTICIPATE?
This event is exclusively for people with vulvas, of all identities, body types, and sexualities (21+).
Participating in Liquid Love does require some mobility, and we cannot guarantee your physical experience if you have significant limitations in that area.
Let us celebrate the beauty and diversity among all participants, and create a space for deep connection, expression, and embodied presence together.
We aim to cultivate a warm and safer space that centers the unique experiences of vulva owners. We ask that participants come with a strong sense of integrity and some experience navigating consent in spaces like this. If you're unsure whether this is the right fit for you, feel free to reach out.
To support health and safety for everyone, entry may be refused in cases of open wounds, rashes, contagious diseases or if you arrive physically unwell. If you’re unsure, please contact us beforehand so we can decide together.
You’re very welcome to join us even if you are menstruating. While Anke loves and supports free-bleeding, for this specific event we kindly ask that you use a tampon, cup, or similar internal product to keep the oil space as clean and comfortable as possible for everyone.
P R A C T I C A L I N F O
HOW TO PARTICIPATE
Liquid love is an invitation to travel into your own sensory universe. This requires a great deal of trust and safety. To create the safest space possible, we have an application form that you will need to fill out prior to purchase. This way we can create a diverse and safer experience for everyone attending.
YOU NEED TO APPLY TO BUY A TICKET
We want to ensure everyone has a good and safe experience, with a well-balanced mix of people for this kind of event. To join, please answer a few questions first by filling out the application form.
Start with this Application Form: https://www.houseofplay.dk/liquid-love-form1
TICKET PRICES
- 425,- kr for members
- 500,- kr for non-members
- Tickets are personal and non-refundable. Please read our full terms and conditions: https://www.houseofplay.dk/terms-and-conditions.
WHAT TO BRING
- 1–2 towels you don’t mind getting oily
- Single-use bathing suit or underwear if you don’t wish to be naked
- Shower/swim cap if you prefer to keep oil out of your hair
- Clothes you don’t mind getting a little oily on the way home
- A simple blindfold (a piece of stretchy fabric works well)
There is no shower at the venue, so plan your journey home accordingly.
CHILIES
🌶️🌶️🌶️: 3 of 4
Read more about House of Play’s chili system here: https://www.houseofplay.dk/chili-system
ABOUT THE FACILITATOR
Anke Van Mullem (she/her)
Anke is a Holistic Intimacy & Relationship Coach and the founder of Soul’n Soma. With years of hands‑on experience and a deeply personal healing journey, she’s passionate about helping individuals and couples build authentic, meaningful connections.
Drawing from ancient and neo-Tantra, Taoist traditions, and modern body-based practices, Anke is dedicated to empowering women and people with vulvas. Her work includes guided self-de-armouring, Jade Egg practice, and the Awakening Pleasure series at House of Play – always in a warm, consent-centred and trauma-aware space.
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Shetlandsgade 3, 2300 Copenhagen, Denmark, Shetlandsgade 3, 2300 København S, Danmark, Copenhagen , Denmark
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