The Secret to Intergenerational Healing with Susan Lieu

Thu May 29 2025 at 07:00 pm to 09:00 pm UTC-07:00

Medicine for Nightmares | San Francisco

Susan Lieu
Publisher/HostSusan Lieu
The Secret to Intergenerational Healing with Susan Lieu
Advertisement
Join Vietnamese American author, playwright, and activist Susan Lieu for a reading & discussion about her memoir, The Manicurist's Daughter.
About this Event

Event Details:

When Susan Lieu was 11 years old, she lost her mother to a botched plastic surgery. Her family never spoke about her mother again. Now, two decades later, Susan is on a journey to share what she learned through the pain: the importance of embracing shame, owning your story, loving your body, and accepting yourself when no one else will.

Join us at Medicine for Nightmares on May 29th at 7:00pm to be in conversation with Susan. She will present a reading from her memoir, followed by a moderated conversation, audience Q&A, and book signing. Books will be available for purchase.


About Susan:

SUSAN LIEU is a Vietnamese-American author, playwright, and performer who tells stories that refuse to be forgotten. She took her award-winning autobiographical solo show, “140 LBS: How Beauty Killed My Mother” on a ten-city national tour, with sold-out premieres and accolades from the Los Angeles Times, NPR, and American Theatre. Her debut memoir, The Manicurist’s Daughter (Celadon), is an Apple Book of the Month, a 2024 Best Book of The Smithsonian, NPR, and Elle Magazine, and has received accolades from The New York Times and The Washington Post. She was recently named one of Seattle Magazine’s Most Influential People of 2024. Creator of The Vagina Monologues, V (formerly Eve Ensler) calls The Manicurist’s Daughter “a stunning, raw, brave memoir that wouldn’t let me go.” Lieu is a proud alumnus of Harvard College, Yale School of Management, TEDx, Coro, Hedgebrook, and Vashon Artist Residency. She is also the co-founder of Socola Chocolatier, an artisanal chocolate company based in San Francisco. Susan lives with her husband and son in Seattle, where they enjoy mushroom hunting, croissants, and big family gatherings. The Manicurist’s Daughter is her first book.


About the Memoir:

An emotionally raw memoir about the crumbling of the American Dream and a daughter of refugees who searches for answers after her mother dies during plastic surgery.

Susan Lieu has long been searching for answers. About her family’s past and about her own future. Refugees from the Vietnam War, Susan’s family escaped to California in the 1980s after five failed attempts. Upon arrival, Susan’s mother was their savvy, charismatic North Star, setting up two successful nail salons and orchestrating every success―until Susan was eleven. That year, her mother died from a botched tummy tuck. After the funeral, no one was ever allowed to talk about her or what had happened.

For the next twenty years, Susan navigated a series of cascading questions alone―why did the most perfect person in her life want to change her body? Why would no one tell her about her mother’s life in Vietnam? And how did this surgeon, who preyed on Vietnamese immigrants, go on operating after her mother’s death? Sifting through depositions, tracking down the surgeon’s family, and enlisting the help of spirit channelers, Susan uncovers the painful truth of her mother, herself, and the impossible ideal of beauty.

The Manicurist’s Daughter is much more than a memoir about grief, trauma, and body image. It is a story of fierce determination, strength in shared culture, and finding your place in the world.

Advertisement

Event Venue & Nearby Stays

Medicine for Nightmares, 3036 24th Street, San Francisco, United States

Tickets

USD 0.00

Sharing is Caring:

More Events in San Francisco

Jay Shetty
Thu, 29 May, 2025 at 04:00 pm Jay Shetty

Bill Graham Civic Auditorium

Health And Safety [RORY]
Thu, 29 May, 2025 at 05:00 pm Health And Safety [RORY]

Salesforce Tower

Alumni Awards - 2025
Thu, 29 May, 2025 at 06:00 pm Alumni Awards - 2025

Basque Cultural Center - Community

On Opening Your Deepest Ground (In-Person)
Thu, 29 May, 2025 at 06:00 pm On Opening Your Deepest Ground (In-Person)

California Institute of Integral Studies - Main building

Second, First in San Francisco
Thu, 29 May, 2025 at 06:30 pm Second, First in San Francisco

Biscuits & Blues

Hadden Sayers LIVE in San Francisco
Thu, 29 May, 2025 at 06:30 pm Hadden Sayers LIVE in San Francisco

Biscuits & Blues

Co-Founders at American Conservatory Theater - The Strand Theater
Thu, 29 May, 2025 at 07:30 pm Co-Founders at American Conservatory Theater - The Strand Theater

American Conservatory Theater - The Strand Theater

Poly Diaz - In Spanish at Cobbs Comedy Club
Thu, 29 May, 2025 at 07:30 pm Poly Diaz - In Spanish at Cobbs Comedy Club

Cobbs Comedy Club

Strings and Heart at Cafe Du Nord at Swedish American Hall
Thu, 29 May, 2025 Strings and Heart at Cafe Du Nord at Swedish American Hall

Cafe Du Nord at Swedish American Hall

Esa-Pekka Salonen - San Francisco
Thu, 29 May, 2025 at 09:00 pm Esa-Pekka Salonen - San Francisco

Louise M. Davies Symphony Hall

THROTTLE: SURGEON
Thu, 29 May, 2025 at 09:00 pm THROTTLE: SURGEON

1015 Folsom

Poly Diaz
Fri, 30 May, 2025 at 02:30 am Poly Diaz

Cobb's Comedy Club

San Francisco is Happening!

Never miss your favorite happenings again!

Explore San Francisco Events