Ladies Night: ENM Speed Dating

Step into an evening of refined connection and elevated conversation designed exclusively for women exploring or embracing ethical non-monogamy. Curated by professional matchmaker Victoria, this intimate soirée blends sophistication with authentic connection in a setting that’s both elegant and effortless.

Designed for women within the ENM spectrum, this event invites you to meet like-minded individuals who share your curiosity, confidence, and commitment to intentional relationships. Whether you seek new romantic energy, deep friendships, or simply an inspired evening among open-hearted peers, this experience invites you to connect with grace and authenticity.

Hosted by ENM Matchmaker Victoria & her husband Ryan with

• Curated Speed Dating Rounds: Guided conversation rotations designed to spark meaningful connections in a relaxed, elegant format.
• Boutique Hosting: Enjoy the thoughtful touch of a professionally hosted experience, facilitated by Victoria and Ryan to ensure comfort, care, and smooth flow throughout the evening.
• Intentional Atmosphere: A luxurious yet approachable ambiance where you can connect freely, share your story, and explore new possibilities without judgment.
• Personalized Follow-Up: After the event, our hosts carefully review match sheets and privately share mutual matches, so your next meaningful connection continues beyond the soirée.

• A warm welcome upon arrival and personalized check-in.
• Name tags and your curated connection tracker.
• Enjoy an exclusive 15% discount on drink tabs for all attendees.
• A brief introduction followed by guided rotations of engaging, five-minute conversations.
• Post-event mingling in a relaxed, social setting—perfect for continued conversation over a drink.
• A follow-up email sharing mutual matches for further connection.

This evening is a celebration of openness and authenticity, tailored for self-identified women who are ethically non-monogamous including those who identify as polyamorous, open, monogamish, in the lifestyle, kinky, or simply curious.

• Atmosphere: Upscale. Warm. Lightly flirtatious. Effortlessly comfortable.
• Attire: Dress to captivate. Think confident, chic, and elevated. This is your night to shine.
• Open To: Solo and single self-identified women within or exploring ENM.
• At-The-Door-Tickets: $35 (available at the door – Cash, Zelle, PayPal, or Venmo accepted)

Redefine what dating feels like. Where modern romance meets mindful exploration, and every conversation holds the potential for something beautifully aligned.

If you’re single and dating, join our complimentary matchmaking registry:https://app.levelconnections.com/m/birds-of-a-feather

Receive insider alerts and exclusive updates:https://reseat.app/pages/birds-of-a-feather-insider-alerts/4102

Stay connected on Instagram: @ENMmatchmaker and @Birdsofafeathermm

Please Note: Photography and videography may be captured during the event for promotional use. Kindly inform the host if you prefer to opt out.Tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable.

Event Venue

Machine Cocktail Bar, 213 West Institute Place, Chicago, United States

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