Kink & BDSM 101

Tue Feb 03 2026 at 07:15 pm to 10:30 pm UTC-05:00

The House | Brooklyn

Hacienda
Publisher/HostHacienda
Kink & BDSM 101 Unleash your Darkest Desires!
About this Event

Curious about BDSM but don’t know where to start? Strip away the myths and focus on the core principles of power exchange with expert instructor Jamie Joy, in an inviting, hands-on primer for the "kink-curious." Topics will include: vocabulary, finding your kinky persona, consent & negotiation, impact play, bondage & restraint, sensation play, and more. Come with partners or come alone, there will be optional hands-on practice opportunities for all. We can't wait to let you in on the transformative power of intentional play!

This workshop will emphasize safety, techniques, and how to establish clear communication through live demonstration.

We will cover everything you need to know to safely and confidently explore:

  • IMPACT - Spanking, Floggers, Paddles, and Canes
  • BONDAGE - Rope, Gags, Cuffs, Blindfolds, etc
  • SENSATION - Feathers, Pinwheels, Wax, Electro etc

Open to singles, partners, all genders, sexualities and experience levels. Come and play!

***There will be a follow up workshop on March 3: ! It is not necessary to attend both, but we'd love to see you there***

Doors at 6:45pm - Workshop starts 7:15pm. The floor will open to socializing with other hungry minds before and after the presentation.

  • This event is a workshop and not a play party!
  • Wear what makes you feel sexy; full nudity is not allowed--this time. ;)
  • Guests should be prepared to see demonstrations.
  • Participation in discussions and activities is very encouraged!
  • Come with partners or come alone. You are welcome at our house!
  • Consent and respect are mandatory in our community.

Host Bio

(they/them) is a vibrant and passionate queer, trans, and Jewish certified sex educator whose life and work is dedicated to fostering joy, consent, and pleasure through community building. With over a decade of experience, Jamie Joy has facilitated educational programs across diverse settings, including health clinics, college campuses, dungeons, national BDSM conferences and more.

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Health & Safety

Before attending social gatherings, monitor yourself for symptoms of illness. We ask if you're feeling unwell at all, or test positive for COVID before an event, that you do not attend. You can request a refund through Eventbrite (up to 48 hrs before the event).


Hacienda Community

This event is hosted by Hacienda, a s-x positive community based in Brooklyn, NY. We host s-x positive events every week. Follow us on Instagram, like us on Facebook, or visit our website and sign up for our newsletter to hear first about all our events!



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Event Venue

The House, 29 Locust Street, Brooklyn, United States

Tickets

USD 31.72 to USD 37.05

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