I Can’t Stop F***ing Thinking About You: Deity Yoga for Obsessive Thoughts

Wed May 27 2026 at 07:30 pm to 09:30 pm UTC-04:00

Near Union Square, Address in email confirmation additional info section | New York

Pagans Paradise
Publisher/HostPagans Paradise
I Can\u2019t Stop F***ing Thinking About You: Deity Yoga for Obsessive Thoughts
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From obsession to awareness—explore deity yoga, ritual, and meditation in a grounded, compassionate space.
About this Event

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Event Details:

  1. Doors Open: 7:30 PM (doors close at 7:40 PM)
  2. Event Ends: 9:30 PM
  3. Location: Provided in your confirmation email

Breath flows into this body as a nectar of the gods

Every breath is a whisper of the Goddess:

“Here is the ritual I ask of you—be the cup into which I pour this bliss.”

– Vijnana Bhairava Tantra 155

This workshop will be a container for examining anxieties, obsessive behaviors, fixations, frenzy, and objectification from the lens of an ancient tantric Buddhist practice known as deity yoga. Featuring a lotus tea ceremony with Blu, a traditional deity yoga meditation, followed by an opt-in group activity for self-worship and worship of others.


What to expect:

♥ Compassionately identifying obsessive feelings and behaviors without pathologizing

♥ A safe space for feeling into the eros of obsessions, fixations, frenzy, and objectification

♥ Experience archetyping oneself as both roles: the obsessive worshipper, and the object of obsession

♥ Reconnecting with courageous confidence in self, worthy of worshipping and being worshipped



Dress:

Attire is entirely your choice – from cozy lounge-wear to creative expression, lingerie, leatherwear, latex, any gear representing a persona, or nothing at all. This is a consent-centered space rooted in respect, inclusivity, and personal empowerment. All bodies, identities, and experience levels are welcome.



Bring:
  • Water bottle
  • Mat (if you have one)
  • Towel (if you want to be naked and need to borrow a mat)



About the facilitator:

♥ About Blu:

Blu (they/them/pupself) is a trans nonbinary identifying “Dharma pup.” Formerly a wilderness first aid professional with a knack for teaching camping skills, they currently identify as a contemporary Buddhist meditation practitioner with a specialization in somatic voice healing. Blu holds a selection of mental health certifications and is in training under the supervision of a spiritual teacher to become a certified Vajrayana Spiritual Care provider.

Blu’s passion for klnk, BD$M, pet-pl@y, has been a lifelong adventure since adolescence. Being a dorky millennial child of the internet, they brought to life their first fursonas through digital art, online rolepl@y, and character building. Blu’s passion for the study of tantric Buddhism started a decade later, in 2012, when they sought refuge in monastic life to receive transmissions on formal techniques from world-renowned Vajrayana teacher Chokyi Nyima Rinpoche. During those few months in the monastic community, Blu was given their first singing bowl, launching a journey of self-discovery through sound healing and chanting. Blu hopes that all beings may be somehow liberated through voice; may the utterance of one vowel be like diving into a boundless joyous ocean! Find out more about Blu, or schedule 1:1 sessions with them, at radiantblu.space


ABOUT US

At Pagans Paradise, we believe in creating a welcoming, joyful space for everyone to explore connection, dive into a range of educational resources, and nurture their authentic selves.📸 Connect with us on Instagram @pagansparadise.📩 Join our newsletter at www.pagansparadiseNYC.com.📧 Any questions or concerns? Email us at [email protected] Paradise has been fostering joy and connection in the community for 10 years.


COSTS

Early Bird (Lowest Price): $30. Limited tickets available—grab yours early to save!

General Admission (Standard Price): $40

LATE ENTRY & REFUNDS

To protect the space and ensure a seamless experience for all, doors will close promptly. Late arrivals may not be admitted, and refunds will not be available. Refund requests must be made up to seven days prior to the event.

You can RSVP, join the event chat, and connect with people before:

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Event Venue & Nearby Stays

Near Union Square, Address in email confirmation additional info section, union square, New York, United States

Tickets

USD 30.00 to USD 44.52

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