HMU Academy: Femdom 101 Becoming a Domme

This Hit Me Up event is open to the public, 21+.

About the Class

The desire to engage in more dominant play can be intimidating, from knowing where to start or even how to feel. This course offers guidance with the practical aspects of taking control, as well as identifying your own unique dominant sexual energy.
The class will begin by discussing interpretations of Femdom, dominant desires, psychology, and creating a persona. Whether gentle, playful, sensual, or sadistic, you’ll learn how to own your dominant side.
The second part of the class will involve how to create a scene, with emphasis on safety, consent, communication, and aftercare. This is followed by an introduction to various mental and physical domination scenarios. A breakout portion to use impact toys is included and will be provided by the workshop at the end of the event. Creativity is encouraged. This will be a safe and welcoming space for exploration.

About Your Facilitator

Lady Mabe is a lifestyle domme and sex educator based in New York City, with over a decade in the sex-positive community. She is also an instructor and an organizer of kink events. She loves bringing out the joy in others through Femdom.

FAQs

FAQ: what should I bring?

Note taking materials

FAQ: any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)

Everyone is welcome

FAQ: what should I wear?

Comfortable clothing, no nudity allowed

FAQ: can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?

Come solo or with others

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Event Venue

120 Walker St floor 5, 120 Walker Street, New York, United States

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