HMU Academy: Femdom 101 - Becoming a Domme

The desire to engage in more dominant play can be intimidating, from knowing where to start or even how to feel. This course offers guidance with the practical aspects of taking control, as well as identifying your own unique dominant sexual energy.

The class will begin by discussing interpretations of Femdom, dominant desires, psychology, and creating a persona. Whether gentle, playful, sensual, or sadistic, you’ll learn how to own your dominant side.

The second part of the class will involve how to create a scene, with emphasis on safety, consent, communication, and aftercare. This is followed by an introduction to various mental and physical domination scenarios. A breakout portion to use impact toys is included and will be provided by the workshop at the end of the event. Creativity is encouraged. This will be a safe and welcoming space for exploration.

Please note that this class is not geared toward becomig a pro domme.

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About Lady Mabe

Lady Mabe is a lifestyle domme and sex educator based in New York City, with over a decade in the sex-positive community. She occasionally pro-dommes and is an organizer of kink events. She loves bringing out the joy in others through Femdom.

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FAQ: what should I bring?

You don’t need to bring anything!

FAQ answer: what should I wear?

Comfortable clothing, no nudity allowed

FAQ : any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)

This class is for everyone - all levels welcome!

FAQ : can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?

Come solo, come with a partner, whatever you want.

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💜Equity Pricing: We recognize that folks have different access to financial resources for a variety of reasons, including being of a marginalized racial identity. If you are BIPOC or do not have the financial capacity for a full-priced ticket please email [email protected] for a discount code.

💜Volunteers: Volunteers needed for Door and set up. Email [email protected] to join the team. Volunteers receive a free ticket.

💜Location: Lower Manhattan. Exact address will be emailed to the person who purchases the tickets. The space has an elevator. Please email [email protected] if you need any accessibility accommodations.

💜Full vaccination is required. While we recommend getting the booster shots, we are not verifying them at this time.

💜Consent Policy: This event is for ropes and other general kink play. Please keep your bottoms on during your scenes. This is an ASK FIRST event and the rules of respectful and consensual behavior WILL be enforced. You will be responsible for reading the policy and behaving appropriately. Please click here to read our consent policy in full.

💜Membership: This event is open to the public. We reserve the right to refuse entry if needed. Hit Me Up also hosts private events which are invite only, and anyone new to Hit Me Up must apply and be approved to attend—no guests or plus ones. If you’d like to apply or invite a new member, please see our website for more information. You are welcome to inquire as to your status or that of your friends, but please do not act as if you have an entitlement to access our space or members. Building special spaces is hard, and while we are inclusive and welcoming, we reserve the right to curate our membership as needed to maintain our flourishing community.

💜Please stay home if you are feeling ill or if you have had recent close contact with someone who tested Covid positive (within the past 5 days). You could be incubating and still test negative. Any requests for refunds for any reason will be honored up to the day of the party. Remember: safe, sane, and sanitary Just email [email protected] and we will give you a full refund, no questions asked.

Event Venue

120 Walker St floor 5, 120 Walker Street, New York, United States