Elegant Evening

Hosted by Kevins_Lifestyle

📅 Friday, March 20th 2026 | 6:00 PM

📍 In the Raw Vu

👥 Ages 35+ Limited Spots Available

You've earned the right to be selective. So have we.

Elegant Evening is an upscale, intimate dinner experience designed for singles 35 and up who are done settling — for bad dates, forced small talk, and rooms full of people who aren't on their level.

Set against the stunning downtown skyline views of In The Raw Vu, this is an evening of sushi, cocktails, real conversation, and a room of 20 carefully vetted people who all passed the same bar you did.
Tickets are $60 so here's what you get with that
- You're having your tab covered COMPLETELY so no need to take out your wallet/purse except to tip to your waiter to your liking.
- Sushi Roll and A Drink
- So your cost for the ticket is covering not just getting into the venue but covers the whole night.
When you walk in, you'll already know: everyone in this room was chosen. Including you.

✦ This Is the One Everyone Will Be Talking About ✦

Let's be real. You've done the apps. You've endured the awkward bar scenes. You've swiped until your thumb went numb — and you're still sitting across from strangers who can't hold a conversation.

That ended last month.
This month
Elegant Evening is not a public event. There is no "grab a ticket and show up." Every single application is personally reviewed before a booking link is ever sent — because the quality of your evening depends entirely on the quality of the room.

Applications are currently being reviewed. Some have already been approved. A few have not.

If you're reading this, you still have a chance. But this is the part where people who wait find out the hard way that the room filled without them.

In Vintage Wine Bar is not your average singles event. This is a curated, high-energy mixer designed specifically for grown professionals — people in their prime, who know what they want and are done wasting time on what they don't. We're talking real conversation, real atmosphere, and real potential — all in one room.

There's room for only 10 women and 10 men

The room is filling up fast. The question is: will you be in?
This is intentional. Here's exactly what to expect:

• Step 1 — Submit your free RSVP form. This is your application.
• Step 2 — Reach out via email or Instagram. This is how we get to know you and ensure the right fit for the room.
• Step 3 — When approved, you'll receive your official booking link to secure your $60 ticket.

This process exists for one reason: so that everyone in the room feels like they belong there — because they do.
After you register and fill out the form i'll send you the approval pay link then your seat is secured.
To apply RSVP for this event and fill in this link
https://bit.ly/4r7Gdy9

Info: Take the Ai Dating personality software Quiz

Info: Part One: Dinner Ice Breakers
Settle in, enjoy your first drink, and ease into our signature Oxytocin Questions — conversation starters designed to skip the surface and get to what actually matters:
• Something you've changed your mind on recently
• The best thing about dating in Tulsa
• The worst thing about dating in Tulsa

Info: Part Two: Best Chance
Here's where the evening gets interesting. After you've all gotten to know each other a bit from the ice breakers and quizzing. The group votes on who has the...
• Best chance of becoming Mayor of Tulsa
• Best chance of being in a relationship next
• Best chance of getting out of town
• Best chance of ending up on the news — good or bad
• Best chance of a music career

Info: Part Three: Reveal the Matches
The moment the whole evening has been building toward. Matches are revealed — and the rest of the night is yours.

Event Venue & Nearby Stays

in the raw vu, 110 North Elgin Avenue, Tulsa, United States

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