Looking for a new dynamic? Join us at our Dom/sub Speed Dating event and meet like-minded individuals in a fun and low-pressure environment.About this Event
Exclusive Dom/Sub Speed Dating Event
Hosted by local matchmaker Victoria with Birds of a Feather Matchmaking, our exclusive Dom/Sub speed dating event invites you to an evening of connection and exploration. This unique gathering is designed for those identifying as Doms and Subs, providing a safe and welcoming space to meet like-minded individuals. We are only selling tickets to submissive women and both men and women who are Doms.
This event is for those who are either straight or bisexual.
— We recognize that our events have traditionally used binary gender terms. We acknowledge this may not be welcoming to all members of our community, including our trans and non-binary friends. We are committed to improving our inclusivity and are actively working on creating more inclusive events in the future. For this particular event, we have chosen to maintain its traditional format. We value all members of the LGBTQ+ community and are open to your input on how we can make our future events more welcoming and inclusive for everyone. If you'd like to share your thoughts or expertise on this matter, please contact us.
Event Details:
- Doors open at 4pm with a 30-minute grace period. Please arrive early or on time!
- Brief introduction and explanation of the event
- Participants will engage in timed, one-on-one interactions, allowing for meaningful connections. - The submissive women will stay seated, and the Doms will rotate.
- A sophisticated, private setting ensures comfort and discretion.
- Consent and respect are paramount. Participants are encouraged to communicate openly about their interests and boundaries.
Vetted: Male Doms are REQUIRED to have a vetting call with Victoria. After tickets are purchased, she will contact you to set up a meeting. If you do not pass the vetting call, you will be refunded. If you purchase a ticket and do not get properly vetted, you will be turned away with no refund. She will contact you using the email and phone number provided.
There will be no same-day tickets at the door for the Dom men due to the required vetting process.
If you would like to have a vetting call before purchasing a ticket, she can be reached by various means, such as:
Fetlife - ENMmatchmaker
Instagram - birdsofafeathermm / ENMmatchmaker
Email -
Phone - 708-316-8108
Why Attend?
- Expand your network within the BDSM community.
- Enjoy a relaxed environment conducive to forming genuine connections.
- Discover potential partners or friends who share your passions.
After the structured Speed Dating portion is complete, there will be opportunities for open mingling. When the mutual matches are complete, the submissives will be given the contact information to contact the Dom they connected with. This typically is exchanged within four days after the event.
Come prepared to connect, explore, and find your perfect match in a respectful and engaging setting.
Our goal is to create a judgment-free zone where you can explore connections that align with your personal values and desires.
Whether you're seeking romantic partners, platonic connections, or simply want to expand your BDSM social circle, this speed dating event offers a unique chance to meet others who share your relationship philosophy.
Join us for an evening of new encounters, stimulating conversations, and the potential to forge meaningful connections in the world of BDSM!
Tickets will be +$10 at the door, so be sure to get your ticket ahead of time!
(1) Drink ticket available with purchase (alcoholic or non-alcoholic options available)
Dress to impress!
If you consider yourself relationship-oriented, join: Dating Date-abase Application – Birds of a Feather Matchmaking
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Disclaimer: Pictures and videos will be taken at the event for future promotional purposes. Please inform the host if you want to be excluded from this content.
Tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable.
We reserve the right to refuse entry.
Event Venue
Rainbow Unicorn, 964 West Belmont Avenue, Chicago, United States
