Couples Speed Dating

Step away from the digital noise and into a world where serendipity is designed, and connection is an art form. Your hosts Victoria and Ryan with invites you and your partner to an exclusive social experience at the darkly romantic and avant-garde Dearly Beloved.

Forget the traditional, resume-style "dating" rounds. This is a rhythmic exchange of energy. A vibrant afternoon of emerald-hued cocktails, golden laughter, and the electric thrill of meeting your next favorite pair. Whether you are seeking new play partners, a flourishing community, or a sudden spark of synergy, the atmosphere is perfectly set for discovery.

Our soiree is designed for the modern couple exploring the expansive world of ENM. Whether you identify as Polyamorous, Open, Swingers, Monogamish, or Kinksters, you’ll find a diverse community sharing a singular spirit of openness and ethical play.

• Bespoke Speed Connection: A structured, high-energy format (typically 20 rounds of 5-minute sparks) designed to bypass the small talk and find the "spark."
• The Follow-Up: No awkward rejections. Simply mark your tracker, and we’ll handle the "serendipity." If the feeling is mutual, we’ll facilitate the introduction post-event so your connection can flourish.

• A warm welcome upon arrival and personalized check-in.
• Name tags and your curated connection tracker.
• A brief introduction followed by guided rotations of engaging, five-minute conversations.
• Post-event mingling in a relaxed, social setting—perfect for continued conversation over a drink.
• A follow-up email sharing mutual matches for further connection.

Dress Code: Dress to impress.

While this event is curated primarily for couples to meet couples, we offer a limited number of invitations for sophisticated singles looking to connect with pairs.

(If you are solo and looking to meet other individuals, please explore our specific “Individuals Event" series.)

• At the Door: Limited tickets may be available for $35/pp.
• Connection Policy: Tickets are non-refundable, no transfers. No exceptions.
• A Captured Moment: We’ll be capturing the magic through photos and video for our community gallery. Please let your host know upon arrival if you’d prefer to remain a mystery.

Join the Conversation. We look forward to seeing you flourish in the company of others.

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Event Venue & Nearby Stays

Dearly Beloved, 900 North Franklin Street, Chicago, United States

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