Confident Women, Younger Men Speed Dating I NYC

Who says chemistry has an age limit? This speed dating event is designed for confident women ages 45–58 who know what they want and men ages 35–45 who appreciate experience, confidence, and real connection.

Expect a fun, relaxed night of fast-paced mini dates where conversation flows easily and sparks happen naturally. No swiping, no awkward bar approaches—just great people meeting face-to-face.

This event attracts curious, open-minded, and socially confident singles who are more interested in chemistry than numbers. Whether you’re looking for romance, connection, or simply a great night out, this is your chance to mix it up and meet someone new.

Each dater must make at least one food or drink purchase to support our host venue.

Efficiency Meets Romance: We’ve ditched the old-school pamphlets, pencils and nametags. Instead, we’re powering matches with our partner, SpeedMatchApp. No app downloads required—just a simple link click!

Pre-Event Prep: Before the big day, you'll receive an email prompting you to create a matching profile on SpeedMatchApp (takes 1 minute). Think of it as your digital wingman/woman, making life easier for you!

Charged Up: Charge that cell phone, my friend! At the event, your phone becomes your secret weapon. As you “date,” you’ll use it to select your matches in real time.

Match Magic: Feeling a connection? Fantastic! You’ve got options baby! Select “friend,” or “date." or "none." And guess what? If the feeling’s mutual, the universe (well, our servers) will work their magic. By the time you get home from the event, you’ll receive a text with all your sizzling matches.

Don’t miss out on this opportunity to make new connections & potentially find your perfect match!

Event Venue & Nearby Stays

Clinton Hall, 230 East 51st Street, New York, United States

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