After5Society-The Attraction Blueprint: Psychology of Relationship Patterns

Mon Apr 20 2026 at 06:30 pm to 08:30 pm UTC-05:00

River North | Chicago

After 5 Society
Publisher/HostAfter 5 Society
After5Society-The Attraction Blueprint: Psychology of Relationship Patterns
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The Science Behind Your "Type" and How to Choose Differently
About this Event

A Conversation on Why We're Drawn to the Wrong People

Join a licensed clinical social worker, professor, and therapist for The Attraction Blueprint: Psychology of Relationship Patterns, an eye-opening exploration of the hidden forces that shape our romantic choices. We’ll uncover why we’re often drawn to the same types of people, even when those relationships don’t serve us, and how early attachment patterns influence who we connect with and why.

This isn’t your typical relationship talk. It’s a thoughtful, engaging, and interactive experience filled with real-life examples, reflective exercises, and powerful insights into human behavior. Together, we’ll explore how familiarity drives attraction, how emotional patterns keep us invested, and how to begin making more intentional, aligned choices in love and beyond. Curious minds (and curious questions) welcome.

Don’t miss this chance to better understand your relationship patterns and step into a more conscious, empowered way of connecting with others with your After5Society.


About the Speaker:

Brenda Reavis (she/her) is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW), therapist, professor, and speaker based in the Chicagoland area. She is the founder of a private practice focused on relational health where she integrates clinical insight with a decolonized, empowerment-based approach to healing. With over a decade of experience, Brenda helps people move from awareness to action by bridging psychological insight with real-life application. Known for her dynamic and engaging speaking style, she creates spaces where audiences feel both challenged and supported, leaving with a deeper understanding of themselves and practical tools they can use immediately.

Good to know before you come:

  • Exact bar location will be disclosed in your confirmation email
  • Arrive early to grab a drink and get settled
  • The speaker portion lasts 1 hour, with optional time to stay and socialize afterward
  • This is a participatory event
  • Seating is limited to keep the experience intimate

Agenda

🕑: 06:30 PM - 07:00 PM
Doors Open & Drinks Flow

Info: Arrive early to grab a drink, settle in, and enjoy the atmosphere. Early birds get the best seats and a head start on mingling!


🕑: 07:00 PM - 08:00 PM
Guided Experience / Talk

Info: Dive into an engaging, interactive session with our speaker. Participate, observe, or simply soak it all in - it's your experience to enjoy.


🕑: 08:00 PM - 08:30 PM
Social Time & Connection

Info: Stick around to chat with fellow attendees, swap ideas, or just relax with a drink. Great conversations often happen after the main event!


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Event Venue & Nearby Stays

River North, Address found in email confirmation, Chicago, United States

Tickets

USD 29.99

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