Women4Women Speed Dating

A Kink-Friendly Speed Dating Experience Designed for Your Lifestyle

Tired of going on dates only to find out they’re not into alternative ways of dating, relating, or playing? This event is created specifically for kink-friendly, ENM, swinger, and BDSM-aligned singles and solos, whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, casually dating, or seeking long-term connection.

And forget the old-school “sit across from a stranger and hope for the best.”
Here, you’ll meet matches who are actually compatible with you.

You’ll complete a short questionnaire after getting your ticket, and our matchmaking tech does the pairing matching you with the top people in the room based on your preferences. It’s the perfect blend of online matching and real-life chemistry, without the dead-end first dates or matches you never meet.

Go on at least 7 5-minute dates with highly compatible people. This is fast, fun, and pressure-free.

Whether you're outgoing or on the shy side, we make it easy to spark real conversations in a room full of people who want the same thing you do: genuine connection.

Tech-powered matchmaking
After purchasing your ticket, you’ll receive a link to a quick questionnaire. Your answers help match you with the most compatible attendees at the event.

Effortless & efficient
You’ll rotate through at least 5 10 mini-dates. That's just enough time to feel if there’s a spark. Conversation starters are provided at each table to keep things light, easy, and engaging. Simply tap yes or no after each round.

No awkward guesswork
After the event, your mutual matches are delivered straight to your phone so you can continue the connection.

Totally solo-friendly
Most attendees come alone and leave with new matches, new friends, or both. The atmosphere is warm, welcoming, and intentionally curated for comfort and connection.

• Women attracted to women, encompassing lesbians, bisexuals, pansexuals, and other WLW (transgender women are women)
• Singles & solos who are available to date including long-term committed people attending together but dating separately
• Monogamous, poly, ENM, kink-curious, partnered-but-solo

Please note: This event is not for couples seeking a third.

General Admission Includes:

• Guaranteed 7 curated mini-dates
• Appetizers throughout the evening
• 1 entry into our gifts & prizes drawing
• Exclusive discounts for KC Kink Coach Dating services and programs

VIP Admission Includes Everything Above, Plus:

• 1 drink ticket (alcoholic or non-alcoholic options available)
• 1 extra entry into our gifts & prizes drawing
• 1 online Speed Dating Prep Session with the KC Kink Coach. Get insider tips to stand out and make your best connections

Event Venue

Lifted Spirits Distillery, 1734 Cherry Street, Kansas City, United States

Concerts, fests, parties, meetups - all the happenings, one place.

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