About this Event
Counseling will cost you $80-$250 an hour. This masterclass delivers FIVE hours of "aha-moment" content for just $99!
The biggest thing you'll ever learn about yourself and others.
Reviews
- “The information shared in this seminar is life-changing, not only for me as a professional counselor but also for my (Christian) clients.... I would recommend this seminar to anyone wanting to have better relationships and better knowledge of self. Thank you!” Stephanie S. (Licensed Professional Counselor, SAC)
- “This has been so beneficial and insightful! I thoroughly enjoyed how this seminar was taught...with wisdom, humor and real-life examples of vulnerability. Great resource and I have been a counselor for many years! I highly suggest investing in yourself with this training.” JoAnne N. (MSW, LCSW, BCPCC)
- "One of the most informative, interactive thought process sessions I’ve attended in years. The ‘Impression Management’ teaching was worth the cost of the day alone.” Andy C.
You'll never see yourself or others the same again.
Have you endured counseling that didn't work? HERE'S WHY: Your counseling didn't address the deepest problem—human desires.
Can you answer these questions?
- What's the deepest cause of marriage problems?
- Why does your partner act like that?!
- Why do your children do what they do?
- Why do you do what you do? (Can you answer this question?)
- What causes all conflict?
- What does Cognitive Behavioral Therapy miss?
- What causes narcissism?
- Why can children be so mean?
- Why do people clam up or blow up?
- Why do children fight?
- Why do children resist their parents?
Can your counselor/therapist answer these beyond nature/nurture theory?
YOU will be able to answer these questions after the seminar.
This workshop will provide immediate, positive impact (if you apply what you learn).
The next time you're trapped in raw conflict, what would you pay to fix it?
- Your biggest problem is not your circumstances.
- Your biggest problem is not the people around you.
- Your biggest problem is within you.
Join counselor Dave Bender as he reveals the deepest reasons for your marriage, parenting, and relationship conflicts.
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NOTE: This unique seminar is entirely not-for-profit. The registration fee is used to cover advertising expenses. We've lost money every time, but that's OK with us because we're glad to help people. If you're not satisfied with what you learned, we will refund your money with no questions asked.
PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM DAVE: As I began to understand and apply this knowledge back in the mid-90s, it began to transform my understanding of myself AND my behaviors immediately. This critical knowledge was a game-changer for me, and I look forward to sharing it with you!
Agenda
9 - 9:55 • SESSION ONE
Info: Speaker Introduction • Two Popular Myths (one of these includes Nature/Nurture Theory) • Humankind: What in the world are you? • A Major Key Truth (You must remember this: "Opposing desires generate conflict.") • Intro of the Iceberg Chart • The First Category of Desires, part one • Definition
10:05 - 11:00 • SESSION TWO
Info: The First Category of Desires, part two • Major Themes in Category One • Life Indicators in Category One (the behaviors you see in yourself and others) • The Second Category of Desires, part one • Definition • Major Themes in Category Two • Life Indicators that signal Category Two
11:10 - 12:05 • SESSION THREE
Info: The Third Category of Desires, part 1 • Definition • Major Themes in Category Three • Life Indicators in Category Three (Many of your problems and other people's behavioral problems will come clear as you understand this tricky and thorny category of desires. Of the three categories, this is the hardest one to see in yourself BUT is the most important for you to learn. Like most people you're probably blind to this one.)
12:05 - 12:35 • Lunch
Info: A free Chick-Fil-A is provided for all who attend the live, in-person event.
12:35 - 1:30 • SESSION FOUR
Info: The Third Category of Desires, part 2 • Life Indicators, continued • There are over 100 Indicators for this thorny category. Here is a sampling: image-massaging, wears “masks,” self-monitoring with impression management, controlling, triangulation, plays victim, pouting, conceited, driven, distant and hollow relationships, seeking acceptance/respect, BDD, feels unique, self-absorbed, unilateral listening, conversation flipping, lack of empathy, narcissistic, angry, argumentative, clams up/blows up.
1:40 - 2:00 • THE METANARRATIVE BEHIND THE DESIRES
Info: The Metanarrative: an overarching account or interpretation of events that provides a structure for beliefs and gives meaning to experiences. You Are A Philosopher • You Are A Theologian • The Bible is a Strange Book • Everything Has a Beginning: What About Desires? • What Major Event In World History Changed Everything? • What Other Major Event Changed Everything Again?
2:00 - 2:30 • OK, SO WHAT NOW? | Q & A
Info: How can you change? • The importance of reconciliation • How do I apply all this to my relationships? • Q & A
Event Venue & Nearby Stays
The Counseling Center at Bay City, 1840 Bond Street, Green Bay, United States
USD 49.50 to USD 99.00
