Obsidian Playground is a bi-monthly BIPOC centered experience. This month we kick it back with a spotlight on '90s R&B!About this Event
Note: Keeping with Eventbrite guidelines, this event is not sex based, hookup style, explicit or pornographic. This an educational workshop and/or themed social gathering and experience with both theory and practical elements as explained in details below.
Hosted by Lord Erebus & Pagans Paradise Crew
Step into the Summer of SOULFEST, a BIPOC-centered klnky celebration of '90s R&B. Relive the golden era of slow jams, club bangers, and unapologetic sensuaIity; where the bass wrapped around you, the melodies hit deep, and every moment felt like a scene straight out of an R&B music video!
This is much more than a party! it’s a throwback to the vibes that shaped us. The era of silk sets, baggy jeans, leather fits, bandanas, and Timberlands. Of basement kickbacks, late-night radio dedications, and dance floors filled with nothing but feeling. As for the music? We’re taking it back with Aaliyah, TLC, Jodeci, Mary J. Blige, Boyz II Men, SWV, Ginuwine, and more! The sounds that defined a generation and set the tone for everything that came after.
EVENT DETAILS
🕗 Doors Open: 9:00 PM (doors close at 10:00 PM sharp)
🕗 Event Ends: 3:00 AM
📍 Location: Private studio near Union Square (full address in confirmation email)
🌟 Accessibility: This is a two flight walk-up space and may not be accessible to all.
WHAT TO EXPECT (Non-Sexual)
- Opening Circle & Social Time
- Desire Board!
- Live demonstration, performances & scenes
- Multiple experience rooms & expanded space
- Multiple ceiling hard-points, benches and X's
- Free party fun time and so much more...
- Facilitators: Our staff are all trained and on duty around the clock to ensure that you have a safe and welcoming experience while you are in our space.
VENDOR
We're thrilled to have present at the event! Offering tantalizing medicinal vegan treats, Amun’s creations are crafted with care to delight your senses and elevate your experience. Stop by their station to indulge in something deliciously healing and nourishing.
WHO CAN ATTEND
Obsidian Playground is an intentional, BIPOC-centered space for Black, Indigenous, and People of Color of all genders and orientations. If you do not identify as BIPOC, you may attend only if you are accompanying a BIPOC partner. We reserve the right to remove anyone who disrupts the comfort or safety of the space. You must be 21+ to attend.
WHAT TO WEAR
We’re going for Music Video Fly (90s Edition). We’d like you to fully capture the smooth, sexy, and effortlessly cool energy of a 90s R&B music video. Think BET after dark, basement kickbacks, and dimly lit dance floors where the slow jams hit just right:
👸🏿 Femme Looks (Think: Aaliyah, TLC, Mary J. Blige, SWV)
- Baggy jeans & oversized fits: Worn low, relaxed, and unapologetically cool.
- Crop tops, bralettes, & fitted tanks: Simple, sexy, and effortless.
- Mini skirts & slip dresses: Satin, leather, or anything that catches the light.
- Leather pieces: Jackets, pants, or full monochrome looks.
- Matching sets: Coordinated but still laid-back.
- Boots or strappy heels: From Timberlands to sleek night-out heels.
🤴🏾 Masc Looks (Think: Jodeci, Ginuwine, 112, Boyz II Men)
- Baggy jeans & loose silhouettes: The looser, the better.
- Open button-ups & silk shirts: Chest out, chain visible.
- Tank tops & sleeveless fits: Clean, simple, and confident.
- Leather & denim layers: Vests, jackets, or full sets.
- Durags, fitted caps, or bandanas: Styled with intention.
- Timbs, classic sneakers, or boots: Effortless and grounded.
💿 Accessories & Extras
- Gold chains, hoops, and statement jewelry: Keep it bold, keep it shining.
- Bandanas, sunglasses, and headwear: That signature 90s attitude.
- Glossy lips & soft glow makeup: Smooth, subtle, and radiant.
- Layered textures: Denim + leather + silk = the perfect mix.
Alternatively
⛓ Fet Wear paired with white and gold patterns or accessories
👢Leather, latex, and sensuaI klnk attire
Street clothing, jeans, workout gear, or casual wear will not be permitted. We reserve the right to turn away anyone who does not put in effort. (For any questions, or more details on our community guidelines please see PagansParadise.com)
WHAT TO BRING
- BYOB/BYOT (Your favorite beverages & items/accessories)
- Tips ($$$) for performers
- Open, curious minds
TICKETS
- Tier 1 (Lowest Price): $50 - Limited tickets available—grab yours early to save!
- Tier 2: $60 - Available until sold out
- Tier 3 (Standard Price): $70
- Door Price: $80 - Subject to capacity.
LATE ENTRY & REFUNDS
To protect the space, late arrivals will not be admitted after doors close, and refunds or exchanges will not be provided. We repeat: No refunds for this event.
ABOUT US
At Pagans Paradise, we believe in creating a welcoming, joyful space for everyone to explore connection, dive into a range of educational resources, and nurture their authentic selves.
📸 Connect with us on Instagram @pagansparadise @obsidianplayground.📩 Join our newsletter at www.pagansparadiseNYC.com
📧 Any questions or concerns? Email us at [email protected] Paradise has been fostering joy and connection in the community for 10 years.
Join us Plura app, RSVP, join the event chat, and connect with people before:
https://plra.io/m/soulfestjun26
Important Notice
Pagans Paradise events are designed for educational and entertainment purposes, and attendees participate at their own risk. Activities may involve physical or emotional exploration, and by attending, you agree to take responsibility for your well-being. All events are consensual, respectful, and professionally guided, in accordance with Eventbrite’s community guidelines.
Event Venue
Near Union Square, Address in email confirmation additional info section, union square, New York, United States
USD 55.20 to USD 76.54
