Stop Freezing Around Women (In-Person workshop San Jose)

Sat Jun 20 2026 at 03:00 pm to 05:00 pm UTC-07:00

University of San Jose (USJ) | San Jose

Silicon Valley's Dating and Relationship Coach, Julia Malakiman
Publisher/HostSilicon Valley's Dating and Relationship Coach, Julia Malakiman
Stop Freezing Around Women (In-Person workshop San Jose)
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Learn how to talk to women without freezing, overthinking, or needing the perfect thing to say.
About this Event

You know exactly what to say.

Until she's right in front of you.

Then your mind goes blank.

You hesitate.

You start weighing every possible outcome.
Maybe she's busy.
Maybe she's not interested.
Maybe you'll come across as awkward.
Maybe you'll say the wrong thing.

And by the time you've finished debating it in your head, the moment is gone.

You walk away frustrated because a part of you knows you wanted to do something different.

Most men assume they need a better opener, more confidence, or the perfect thing to say.

But if you've ever found yourself freezing around women, you already know that's not the real issue.

Because you've probably watched the videos.

Read the advice.

Saved the posts.

And yet when there's an actual woman standing in front of you, all of that information somehow disappears.

That's because confidence isn't built by understanding it.

It's built by experiencing it.

And that's exactly what this workshop is designed to help you do.

Stop Freezing Around Women is a live, in-person workshop for men who are tired of overthinking, hesitating, and watching opportunities pass them by.

This is not a pickup artist seminar.

You won't be memorizing lines, learning manipulative techniques, or trying to become some louder, more outgoing version of yourself.

Instead, you'll learn how to stay present when anxiety shows up, take action even when you're nervous, and develop the kind of confidence that comes from real experience.

During this interactive workshop, you'll learn:

• Why your brain freezes around women you're attracted to

• The hidden thought patterns that create hesitation and self-doubt

• How to stop putting women on a pedestal and start seeing them as people

• A simple framework for starting conversations naturally

• How to stay in an interaction without needing the perfect thing to say

• The difference between confidence and comfort and why most men wait for the wrong one

• How to build confidence through action instead of waiting to feel ready

Most importantly, you'll practice.

Because confidence isn't something you think your way into.

It's something you build one conversation, one interaction, and one uncomfortable moment at a time.

If you're tired of leaving social situations wishing you had done more...

If you're tired of watching opportunities come and go...

If you're ready to stop sitting on the sidelines and start participating in your own dating life...

This workshop is for you.

📅 Saturday June 20th 2026

🕒 3PM-5PM

📍 1631 N 1st #200, San Jose, CA 95112

Spots are intentionally limited to keep the workshop interactive and personalized.

If you've been waiting to feel ready before taking action, this is where you'll learn that action is what creates ready.
For any questions, you can text (408) 645-0597

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Event Venue & Nearby Stays

University of San Jose (USJ), 1631 North First Street, San Jose, United States

Tickets

USD 39.19

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