Name: Softer Dating - A gentle space for real connection
Start: 2026-02-18T19:00:00+01:00
End: 2026-02-18T22:00:00+01:00
Location: House of Play

Softer Dating - A gentle space for real connection (Age: 25-40)
So many people are tired of dating apps and at the same time there aren’t many alternative ways for meeting people out there.
Softer Dating a space, in real life, where you will meet others looking for connections!
We understand that being in such a space might feel intimidating or even scary, that’s why there will be plenty of time to land together and find calmness before engaging with others.
Softer Dating is about a shared, playful experience. Dating is simply the frame.
At its heart it is about connection, intimacy, authenticity and curiosity. In that way it differs from classic dating events where the outcome is all that matters. Regardless of the outcome, whether you meet the love of your life or not, you will hopefully feel nourished, connected and joyful!
The evening is split into two interlocking parts:
1) Moments of connection
You will meet a range of people through a series of short, guided one-on-one experiences.
These are small moments where you can sense the other person’s vibe and explore whether there is resonance:
- perhaps it’s someone’s grounding touch that entices you…
- the small details around their eyes that draw you in
- the sound of their voice as they whisper into your ear
- the way they move as you share a dance
Consent is made explicit and encouraged throughout. All exercises are invitations, you can always choose to do less. There is a strong focus on learning to listen to your own body’s signals and honoring your boundaries at every step.
2) Follow your curiosity:
During the second half of the evening, the space opens up. You can choose freely who you want to interact with and in what way.
This is your chance to reconnect with someone you resonated with, or talk to someone you are curious about but didn’t get to meet yet!
There will be four areas where you can explore connection in different ways:
- Move your body: dance, move, be in your body, explore what happens when bodies speak
- Share mindful touch: soft mattresses where you be explore touching and being touched, with care and consent
- Curious conversations: a space for you to get to know one another through words
- Solo time: an introvert friendly space where you can be by yourself whenever you want
Touch and closeness may arise, if desired. The atmosphere is intimate but not sexual. There is no nudity, and no pressure to engage in any activity.
This is an invitation for an exploration at your own pace, within your own boundaries, playful and with presence.
We are looking forward to seeing you!
WHO IS THIS FOR?
This event is for people aged 25-40 looking to make meaningful connections.
While this is not an explicitly queer event, any gender expression, style of relating and sexual preference is welcome.
CAN I JOIN AS A BEGINNER?
Yes! No prior experience is needed!
DO I NEED A PARTNER?
No need to bring a partner, though it might be a great idea to have a friend join!
DRESSCODE
Dare to stand out, show who you are! Think of what makes you feel comfortable, confident, sexy perhaps? Wear something that allows you to move around easily for the exercises. Feel free to go all out, if you are wondering “Is this too much?” The answer is: “More is more!” go for it!
WHAT TO BRING
Just bring yourself!
TIMES
Doors open at 18:30 for you to land softly in the space
Doors close at 19:00 where we start. Please be on time.
The event lasts 3 hours and ends at 22:00
TICKETS
280 kr for members
350 kr for non-members
Tickets are non-refundable.
Be sure to read our cancellation policy and no-show fee here: https://www.houseofplay.dk/terms-and-conditions
CODE OF CONDUCT
Before showing up to any of our activities, please make sure to read and follow the House of Play Code of Conduct https://www.houseofplay.dk/code-of-conduct.
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ABOUT THE FACILITATOR
My name is Philipp, but you may call me Pyt!
I’ve been creating intimate events and workshops for the past few years, and simply love creating spaces for people to unfold and enjoy themselves!
I work as a life coach and facilitator, you can check out my work at www.softkink.dk