Silver Sapphics: Speed Dating and Mixer

Hi, Matchmaker Karmen here. We've been having such a good time at the Silver Sapphics events, we're keeping it going! If you're a single, sapphic, and open to meeting new people, come to Hen's and bring a friend. We have space in the private back room for mixing and mingling. And don't forget, it's happy hour! Hen's has incredible prices with the loveliest of bartenders.

How it started: I've spoken with a number of lesbians and bi women in their fifties, sixties, and seventies who feel like nightlife caters to a younger crowd. And, for most people, it's harder to meet people in bars than it used to be. So, I partnered with Henrietta Hudson to bring you Silver Sapphics, a singles mixer for the 50+ community.

About the Hosts:

Karmen Paley: Matchmaker and Founder of Pride Matchmaking™ (formerly Karmen Connects), a boutique matchmaking agency serving LGBTQ+ clientele. With six years of experience, Karmen has celebrated many lasting matches across the spectrum of identity. Specializing in the unique dynamics of queer dating, they focus on helping LGBTQ+ individuals navigate dating with intentionality and authenticity.

is a legendary venue built by lesbians and rooted in community, activism, and care. For over 30 years, Hen’s has served as a safe haven in NYC—now reimagined as a spacious, airy lounge designed for connection, comfort, and creativity. Blending the warmth of a living room with the ease of a petite café, the space features mid-century modern design, cozy seating, work nooks, an outdoor enclave, a charcuterie bar, and a refreshed cocktail menu. While proudly the longest-running lesbian bar in the country, Henrietta Hudson embraces and uplifts the entire queer community—past, present, and future.

Questions? Email [email protected]

*TGNC: Trans, Gender Non-Conforming

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Henrietta Hudson, 438 Hudson Street, New York, United States

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