Queer & Well Presents: Valentines Speed Dating - Gay & Lesbian Edition

In collaboration with Love on Tap

Join us for an evening of connection, flirtation, and queer community at the SF LGBT Center on Wednesday, February 12th, from 6:00–9:00 PM.

This Valentine’s Edition Speed Dating event is designed specifically for gay- and lesbian-identified folks who want to meet new people in a fun, affirming, and low-pressure environment. Whether you’re hoping to spark a romance, find a crush, or simply enjoy meaningful conversation, this night is all about authentic connection and possibility.

💘 How it works:
Participants will take part in a series of short, guided “mini dates” across four sections, with 16 people per table:

Gay Men Tables (2 total):

• Ages 21–42
• Ages 43+

Lesbian Tables (2 total):

• Ages 21–42
• Ages 43+

Age ranges are offered simply to help folks find spaces that feel most comfortable — you’re welcome to join whichever table feels right for you, regardless of age.

You’ll receive a simple scorecard to note who you vibe with, and after the event, our partners at Love on Tap will review mutual interests and email you your matches overnight — no awkward follow-ups, just clear consent and shared interest.

Whether you leave with a date, a new friend, or just a great story and a few butterflies, this event is about creating space for laughter, presence, and queer joy — just in time for Valentine’s Day.

💖 Come as you are
💖 Be curious and kind
💖 Let connection unfold naturally

is a free monthly series at the SF LGBT Center offering that provides a communal space for LGBTQ+ folks to explore different forms of care rooted in connection to community.

Meet your Host!

Love on Tap is an experience built to bring people together in fun, authentic ways, with a strong commitment to creating inclusive spaces for all. We believe that queer events are essential, not just for connection, but for visibility, safety, and celebration of identity. Too often, our communities are overlooked in traditional dating spaces, so Love on Tap provides a welcoming environment where everyone can meet, mingle, and feel seen. By fostering community through shared experiences, we’re helping to create not just matches, but meaningful connections that strengthen and uplift the queer community.

Info: Arrive early, grab a tea, and settle in.

Event Venue & Nearby Stays

SF LGBT Center, 1800 Market Street, San Francisco, United States

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