About this Event
Welcome to Playhouse: Erotes, an immersive evening where intimacy, atmosphere, and performance intertwine.
Inspired by the Erotes, the ancient Greek personifications of desire, this edition of Playhouse explores three emotional forces:
Eros — attraction, spark, and magnetic pull
Himeros — urgency, intensity, and craving
Pothos — longing, anticipation, and the ache of what draws you closer
Together, they form desire in motion: the glance, the pull, the chase, the surrender.
In Collaboration with Hit Me Up NYC
This edition of Playhouse is presented in collaboration with Hit Me Up, bringing together members of both communities inside Hit Me Up’s expansive, two-floor venue in Lower Manhattan.
Highlights:
Immersive performances and ritualized moments inspired by attraction, pursuit, and longing, unfolding throughout the night
Over 7,000 sq. ft. of multi-sensory space with multiple rooms to explore
Comfortable lounge areas for observing, resting, and connecting
Themed rooms with curated environments designed to support interaction and expression
Full bar and DJ programming guiding the energy of the evening
Professional sound and lighting enhancing movement, bodies, and performance
Evening Flow
9:00 PM – Midnight
Guests enter a myth-inspired environment where performances emerge throughout the space. Expect sculptural tableaux, gold-adorned bodies, ritual costuming, choreographed movement, rope-based artistry, and slow-burn scenes set to deliberately paced music.
Midnight – Late
As the night deepens, the atmosphere shifts. Performances evolve, the space becomes more fluid, and guests are invited to explore connection and expression within the environment. Desire builds, curiosity lingers, and the experience opens outward.
Arrival Notes:
Doors close promptly at 10:30 PM, followed by a required orientation.
Please DM a host in advance if you anticipate arrival issues.
Membership Required
This is a members-only event, open to approved members of Night Owls or Hit Me Up.
You do not need to be a member of both communities to attend.
Applications can be found at:
• nightowlsmeet.com
• hitmeupnyc.com
Volunteer Tickets
A limited number of volunteer tickets are available.
Email [email protected] for details.
Dress Code: Erotes in Gold
Gold is the focal point. Build your look around metallics, shimmer, or gold-toned accents, paired with neutral base colors like white, cream, nude, or ivory.
Think draped fabrics, tailored silhouettes, expressive layers, statement jewelry, and intentional styling. Texture and skin may be part of the look.
Dress with intention.
Step Into the Night
Playhouse is an immersive experience where guests may also become part of the spectacle. Those interested in participating in curated moments or live scenes may apply in advance via the Playhouse: Erotes Scene Form.
Participation is optional and subject to approval.
Community Standards & Consent
This event follows an ASK FIRST culture. Respectful, consensual behavior is required at all times.
Designated Guardians and Hosts will be present throughout the event and are available for support.
Full consent policies:
• nightowlsmeet.com/consent
• consent.hitmeupnyc.com
Additional Information
• 21+ only
• Photo ID required
• Tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable
• Entry is at management’s discretion
• Venue address shared with confirmed guests prior to the event
By RSVPing, you agree to the Night Owls Terms of Service and Code of Conduct:
nightowlsmeet.com/terms
Event Venue & Nearby Stays
Lower Manhattan (address shared with approved guests before the event), Lower Manhattan, New York, United States
USD 65.87 to USD 81.88
