About this Event
On The Spot Dating Show: 35+ | An elevated and entertaining evening of intentional dating and meeting people IRL for people 35 and up!
🗓 Event Details
📍Location: Union Kitchen & Tap | 333 Fifth Ave, San Diego, CA 92101
❗️Ages: This event is for singles 35+
👗 Dress Code: Elevated attire required (think date night energy: cocktail dresses, blazers, jumpsuits, khakis. Leave the t-shirts and flip flops at home for this one!)
🥂 Curated, on-theme drink menu
🎟️ Limited spots available!
👉 How to Sign Up to be a Chooser or a Contestant on Stage 👈:
Fill out this form for a chance to be selected!
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What To Expect:
✦ Curated Pre-Show Mixer: You'll kick the night off with a guided mingling experience before the show starts. Our host works the room, the energy is good, and by the time the show starts you've already met half the room.
✦ The Show: Singles get put On The Spot in front of a live audience, and matches go on sponsored same-night dates. No ghosting. No flaking. Just real connections made in real time.
✦ The After-Show Social Mixer: After the show, the floor opens up. Keep the conversations going, meet people you didn't get to before the show, and see where the night takes you.
✦ Curated Connections Follow-Up: This is the part that makes this night different from every other singles event you've been to. Before you leave, you'll fill out a short form. Within 48 hours, our team personally curates introductions based on what we observed throughout the night. Think of it as a matchmaker who was actually in the room with you.
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THE DETAILS
🍹 Custom on-theme cocktail menu designed just for this event
🎬 Full live show production : projector, MC, the whole thing
👗 Elevated attire required: think date night in Gaslamp, not a regular night out
🎟️ Intentionally small guest list: this isn't a 200-person mixer
ATTIRE
We're keeping this one elevated! Think date night energy. Cocktail dresses, blazers, jumpsuits, heels, dress shoes, a look you actually put thought into. This is a dress-up kind of night and trust us, you'll want to look good. Leave the jeans and sneakers at home for this one. 🥂
TICKETS
🌟 Early Bird, Limited Availability — $35
Same full experience, rewarded for buying early. Limited quantity! Once they're gone, they're gone.
🎟️ General Admission — $40
Full access to the pre-show mixer, the live show, the after-show open mixer, and Curated Connections follow-up.
💫 VIP — $45
Everything in General Admission, plus your photo and 3 fun facts featured in a rotating slideshow displayed throughout the night. You came here to be seen, so we'll make sure of it. After purchase, you'll receive a short form to submit your photo and facts. Takes 2 minutes, totally worth it.
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This isn't speed dating. This isn't swiping. This is showing up in real life, being present, and giving it an actual shot, with a room full of people who did the exact same thing.
See you June 10! 🥂
* This event is sponsored by *
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What Is On The Spot Dating?
On The Spot - Dating Show is part dating event, part social experiment and it always ends in same-night date nights where ghosting isn’t an option and spontaneity is rewarded.
San Diego singles are put on the spot and chemistry is put to the test, all in front of a live audience where matches are made in real time. One Chooser will lead a playful & intentional Q&A, asking three mystery contestants questions and then deciding which contestant they want to take out on a date that night (all without seeing them face-to-face)
Whether you’re in the hot seat or cheering from the crowd, it’s the perfect chance to connect, vibe, and maybe even spark something real.
Event Venue & Nearby Stays
Union Kitchen and Tap Gaslamp, 333 Fifth Avenue, San Diego, United States
USD 39.19 to USD 55.20
