Modern Dating at 40+: Finding Your Boo at Cocktails & Convos

Where business, boldness, and bourbon meet (even if you're sipping sparkling water).No scripts. It's where business, boldness, and bourbon meet (even if you’re sipping sparkling water).

Flirting, fashion, and finding your match—yes, it’s all on the table.

Let’s be real: dating in your Second Act (or any act) isn’t what it used to be, and thank goodness. But confidence? That’s still the magic ingredient. And no, it’s not something you’re just born with. It’s something you learn, practice, and wear like your favorite power heels.

So, let’s ask the real questions:

👠 Are you feeling stuck when it comes to flirting—or even being seen?

💄 Do you wonder what silent signals your clothes are sending before you say a word?

💃 And do you ever wish you had just a little more sexy confidence, not for them, but for you?

Truth bomb: Sexy confidence isn’t a personality trait. It’s a skillset, and our expert dating coach and therapist is here to help you build it from the outside in. Because yeah, we can lose confidence at any age! 

Let's get it back to find your boo.

Join SecondActWomen's Barbara Brooks and special guest Kimmy Seltzer, Confidence Therapist and Dating Strategist, for a bold, unfiltered conversation on:

• The real link between how you dress and how you feel
• What your image says before you even speak
• The (totally learnable) art of flirting!

Let's face it. When we feel good in our skin, show up in our style, and lead with our energy? The right people—romantic or otherwise—feel it.

Whether you’re looking to date again, speak up more at work, or just reconnect with your own damn magic, this convo is your moment.

• August 21 | 4PM
• Clayton Hotel & Members Club, Denver
• RSVP at secondactwomen.com

No scripts. No filters. Just the conversations we actually want to have.

RSVP now. Seats are limited.

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Our host venue, the Clayton Hotel & Members Club, is the perfect backdrop—stylish, comfy, and just the right kind of oasis for us on a "little Friday." Relax, unwind, and enjoy the evening with your new girlfriends. If you decide to join the Clayton Members Club for co-working and fun, you can save big by mentioning Barbara Brooks' name on the membership application.

Ready to tour? Book today right here.

Barbara Brooks, 58, is a pro-age speaker, media contributor, personal brand expert and founder of SecondActWomen.

Check us out at secondactwomen.com, join our Facebook community, and follow @secondactwomen on Instagram and LinkedIn.

Event Venue

Clayton Members Club & Hotel, 233 Clayton Street, Denver, United States