Healing Trauma with K!nk: K!nky Shadow Work Series

KlNKY SHADOW WORK 101: Healing Trauma with K!nk

Event Details

• 🕗 Workshop: 7:30pm
• 🕗 Event ends: 10:30am
• 📍 Location: Herald Square NYC (Full address provided in your confirmation email)
• 🌟 Accessibility: This venue has elevator access

Join us in the fun and enticing worlds of K!nk and Tantric practice.(Non-Sex based)

We’re diving deep into the delicious and edgy terrain where shadow meets sensation. This workshop is for the brave-hearted explorers ready to use k!nk as a spiritual tool or ethical non-monogamy as a path to radical self-awareness.

Come for the workshop and stay for the Jam to practice what you learned and connect with other curious, conscious folks in the lifestyIe.

We’ll explore how our deepest triggers, jealousies, and fantas!es can become sacred doorways to healing and transformation when held in love, presence, and community. We'll teach you how non-monogamy isn’t just a relationship style—it’s a shadow integration practice that helps you uncover and alchemize unconscious beliefs and unmet needs.

Conscious BD$M gives us the tools to embody archetypes, moving with power dynamics, and express repressed emotions in a safe container.

Tantric principles offer us presence, breath, and energy awareness to integrate these experiences somatically, not just intellectually.

This is not a lecture — It is a ceremony where we are guiding you through embodied experiences, partner exercises, meditations, and communal explorations. No partner required. All genders, bodies, orientations, and levels of experience welcome.

💜 Foundations of Shadow Work: Understand the concept of the "shadow" from a Jungian perspective, exploring how disowned aspects of the self influence behavior and relationships.

💜 K!nk as Transformative Practice: Learn how k!nk and BD$M practices can serve as powerful modalities for exploring and integrating shadow aspects, emphasizing intentionality, consent, and emotional safety.

💜 Personal Shadow Inventory Exercise: Engage in guided exercises to identify personal shadow elements, fostering self-awareness and setting the stage for conscious exploration.

💜 Framework for Conscious K!nk Practice: Discover the ALTAR Method—a structured approach to integrating shadow work into k!nk practices, focusing on awareness, language, trust, alignment, and release.

💜 Safety Considerations: Discuss emotional safeguards, the importance of consent, and strategies for ensuring psychological well-being during and after shadow-oriented k!nk experiences.

💜 Closing Integration: Participate in a guided visualization and group sharing to consolidate insights and set intentions for continued personal exploration.

About Facilitators

Danny and Vanessa are trauma-informed Psychedelic Integration, intimacy and relationship coaches who specialize in helping couples heal and thrive through sacred connection. With over a decade of experience studying tantra, psychedelic integration, and somatic practices, they bring a unique blend of ancient wisdom and modern science to their teaching.

Vanessa and Danny’s journey from toxic relationship patterns to tantric intimacy has fueled their passion to guide others toward emotional safety and fulfillment. Through intimacy tool like psychedelic therapies, tantra, somatic, k!nk and pleasure healing Danny and Vanessa offer a compassionate approach rooted in trauma healing and nervous system regulation. Together, they’ve created transformative workshops, coaching programs, and events that inspire couples to embrace vulnerability, passion, and deep connection.

Danny Panzella-Velez
Trauma Informed Psychedelic Integration & Relationship Guide
Https://SovereignLove.NYC

TICKETS

Prices increase as tiers sell out—don’t wait! Bring a friend/partner and save.

🎟️ Workshop Single $45
🎟️ Workshop Couple $80

LATE ENTRY AND REFUNDS

Refunds must be requested 7 days prior to event - if you can't make it, please gift or sell your ticket to a worthy soul. To protect the space, late arrivals will not be admitted after doors close, and refunds will not be provided.

Important Notice

Pagans Paradise events are intended for educational and entertainment purposes, and attendees participate at their own risk. Some events may involve physical or emotional exploration, and by attending, you agree to take personal responsibility for your well-being. Pagans Paradise upholds Eventbrite's community guidelines, this event is not sex-based, hookup-style, explicit, or pornographic, and all activities within our events are consensual, respectful, and professionally guided.

Danny & Vanessa Panzella-Velez are the founders of Sovereign Love NYC as well as k!nk educators at Pagans Paradise. After healing their own relationship from toxic cycles using plant medicine, k!nk, and conscious communication, they now teach others how to integrate psychedelics, somatic tools, and shadow work into their love & sex lives. They offer psychedelic & relationship coaching and facilitate ecstatic community gatherings. 🌐 SovereignLove.nyc

Event Venue

Near Herald Square, Address in email confirmation additional info section, herald square, New York, United States

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