Effective Negotiation in Kink Play, Scenes, and Dynamics

This workshop is designed for individuals interested in learning how to negotiate kink play, scenes, and dynamics with confidence, clarity, and consent. In kink, effective communication is key to creating safe, enjoyable, and consensual experiences. Participants will gain practical skills in discussing boundaries, desires, and limits, while exploring how to build trust and mutual respect. The workshop will cover key aspects of negotiation, including how to initiate conversations about kink, what questions to ask to ensure informed consent, and the importance of active listening during negotiations. Emphasis will be placed on respecting personal boundaries, maintaining clear communication throughout play, and adapting dynamics in real-time to ensure a positive experience for everyone involved.

SMART Learning Objectives:

• By the end of this workshop, participants will be able to effectively negotiate a kink scene by identifying and asking at least five essential questions that ensure mutual consent, respect boundaries, and establish a dynamic that aligns with the desires and comfort levels of all parties involved.
• By the end of this workshop, participants will be able to effectively construct their own written and oral negotiations for scenes.

Key Takeaways:

• Understanding the principles of negotiation in kink play
• A step-by-step guide to initiating conversations about kink and setting boundaries
• Practical examples of questions to ask during negotiations (e.g., limits, safewords, physical and emotional aftercare)
• Active listening techniques to ensure mutual understanding and consent
• How to read and adapt to changes in body language and tone during negotiations
• Strategies to debrief after scenes to enhance future negotiations and play

Who the Workshop Is For:

This workshop is for anyone new to kink or experienced practitioners looking to refine their communication skills. It is particularly useful for those in new or evolving dynamics who want to ensure they create a safe, consensual, and communicative environment in their play and relationships. Whether you're an individual seeking to improve your personal negotiation skills or a kink educator looking to better assist others, this workshop will provide you with the tools to enhance your communication and ensure consensual, respectful experiences.

Accessibility

Closed Captions will be provided. Workshop will be recorded and you will have access to the recording for 30 days.

AASECT Information

This program meets the requirements of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) and is approved for 2 CE credits. These CE credits may be applied toward AASECT certification and renewal of certification.

Completion of this program does not ensure or guarantee AASECT certification. For further information please contact [email protected].

To participate in this workshop, you must agree to the Activity Release & Liability Form.

Event Venue

Online