Dating for Engineers (In-Person San Jose Event)

Sat Mar 14 2026 at 03:00 pm to 05:00 pm UTC-07:00

University of San Jose (USJ) | San Jose

Silicon Valley's Dating and Relationship Coach, Julia Malakiman
Publisher/HostSilicon Valley's Dating and Relationship Coach, Julia Malakiman
Dating for Engineers (In-Person San Jose Event)
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A Live, In-Person Dating Bootcamp for Analytical Men
About this Event

Dating for Engineers: From Stuck to Confident (Live, In-Person)

Saturday, March 14th | 3:00–5:00 PM
📍 1631 N First St #200, San Jose, CA 95112
🎯 In-person, Small group ~ Real practice

If you’re an intelligent, capable man…
and dating still feels harder than it should....this event is for you.

You might be successful in your career.
You might be logical, thoughtful, self-aware.
And yet when it comes to talking to women, something stalls.

You overthink.
You freeze.
You replay conversations in your head.
You know you have more to offer.....but it doesn’t come out naturally in the moment.

This workshop exists for that exact gap.


This is not another dating lecture.

This is not theory.
This is not pickup lines.
This is not YouTube advice you’ve already watched at 2am.

This is live, in-person training designed specifically for analytical, introverted men....

.....where you don’t just understand what to do… you actually practice it until it clicks.


What This Experience Is Really About

Confidence with women is not a personality trait.

It’s a skill.

And skills are learned through guided repetition, not information overload.

In this 2-hour immersive experience, I will help you:

  • understand why you freeze or overthink in social moments
  • learn how attraction and connection actually work (without pretending to be someone you’re not)
  • practice real conversations through live roleplay that rewires your nervous system
  • feel what it’s like to speak calmly, clearly, and confidently.... in your own way

This is the missing piece most men never get.

You don’t need more advice.
You need safe, structured exposure (with a coach who knows exactly how to guide you through it.)


What You’ll Walk Away With

By the end of this workshop, you will:

  • feel noticeably more relaxed speaking to women
  • know how to start conversations without scripts or pressure
  • understand how to flirt naturally (without being awkward or performative)
  • stop freezing when it matters
  • leave with practical tools you can use immediately in real life

Most importantly, you’ll walk out with proof that you can do this.

And once your nervous system gets that proof, everything changes.


What Makes This Different

✔ Designed specifically for engineers & analytical thinkers
✔ Small group environment (no being put on the spot)
✔ Live coaching + roleplay to lock in confidence
✔ Real skills you can’t get from videos alone
✔ Led by a coach who works with real men, in real situations

This is where thinking turns into action.


This Is NOT:
  • pickup artistry
  • acting alpha
  • memorizing lines
  • public speaking
  • being forced beyond your capacity

You don’t need to be confident to attend.
You just need to show up.


A Question for You

If nothing changes, what will dating look like a year from now?

Because the men who transform their dating lives don’t wait until they feel ready,
they step into the moment that creates readiness.

This could be that moment.


Event Details

🗓 Saturday, March 14th
⏰ 3:00–5:00 PM
📍 1631 N First St #200, San Jose, CA 95112
👥 In-person, limited spots for personalized coaching

If you’re tired of feeling stuck and ready to become the version of yourself who communicates with ease and presence, reserve your spot.

This is where clarity turns into confidence.
Spots are limited so grab yours while it's still available.
For questions, please text Julia Malakiman at (408) 645-0597 or email [email protected]

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Event Venue & Nearby Stays

University of San Jose (USJ), 1631 North First Street, San Jose, United States

Tickets

USD 39.19

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