Black Singles Speed Dating Ages 30s-40s, West Hartford, CT at El Santo

Ditch the apps and connect face-to-face with other singles in the Black community—right here in New Haven!

If you’re looking to vibe with people who get you, come out and meet real, local singles in a setting that’s warm, welcoming, and full of good energy. This event is all about meaningful conversations, new connections, and a night that actually feels fun.

Whether you’re new to dating or just ready for a change, our speed dating format makes things natural and easy—with guided conversations and a simple matching process.

Note on Age Range: While this event is focused on singles within the age range specified in the title, that range is a recommendation—not a hard rule. If you’re just outside it but feel you’d connect well with this crowd, come join us! We aim to create balanced events where everyone has a chance to meet someone compatible.

• Casual Mixer Kickoff – Arrive early to check in, grab a drink (not included but encouraged), and settle in before the rounds begin.
• Guided Conversations – Icebreakers keep things light, and our host makes sure the energy flows.
• Perfect-Length Connections – Just enough time to feel out the vibe before rotating to your next mini-date.
• Simple Matching System – After each round, mark “date,” “friend,” or “pass.” If it’s mutual, you’ll get each other’s info the next day!

• Please arrive 15–30 minutes early to settle in! We start promptly, and late arrivals may not be accommodated.
• This event centers connection, presence, and open-mindedness. Enjoy the experience, meet new people, and let things unfold naturally.
• Space is limited to keep the group balanced and the interactions meaningful—grab your spot before it fills up!

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Age Guidelines & Inclusivity

The age range for this event is a general recommendation. We welcome all participants regardless of age or gender and do not verify this information at check-in.We do not perform background checks on participants, so please exercise your own judgment when meeting new people, just as you would on any dating platform.Our goal is to create a welcoming and enjoyable environment for everyone.

Gender Balance & Attendance Disclaimer

We work hard to maintain a balanced ratio of male and female attendees by carefully managing ticket releases. However, we cannot guarantee exact gender ratios at the event, as last-minute no-shows are beyond our control.

No refunds will be issued due to uneven gender balance.

To reduce no-shows, we have a three-strike policy — anyone who misses three events without notice may be banned from attending future events.

We believe a positive mindset goes a long way — your experience is what you make of it, and many guests have a great time regardless of the final numbers.

Event Changes & Cancellations

We reserve the right to postpone or cancel events with insufficient registrations.If this happens, you'll receive either a full refund or the option to transfer your ticket to another event.

Waitlist Information

When events sell out, join our waitlist through Eventbrite.You'll receive an email notification when spots become available and can then secure your ticket through our Eventbrite page.

Important: Tickets must be purchased through Eventbrite only. We do not accept payment at the venue on event day.

Accessibility Notice

Some venues may not have elevators or full accessibility features.If you need specific accommodations, please contact us at before purchasing your ticket so we can confirm availability at that location.

Safety & Liability

By attending, you agree that participation is at your own risk.You release Sips and Sparks LLC, our team, venues, and partners from liability for any accidents, injuries, or damages that may occur during or after the event, including from interactions with other participants.

Photography & Social Media

Please note that photos and videos may be taken during this event for promotional and marketing purposes, including use on our website and social media channels. By attending, you consent to being photographed and having your image used in these materials. If you prefer not to appear in any photos or videos, please inform the event host upon arrival, and we will do our best to accommodate your request.

Don't want to be in photos? Simply let our event host know when you arrive, and we'll make sure to respect your privacy.

Refund Policy1+ week before event: Full refund guaranteed (minus Eventbrite processing fees).For refunds, email us at .

Info: Check in to find your seat, name tag, and pull up the match sheet we'll be using throughout the event. Enjoy free mingling during this time to break the ice and get to know other attendees!

Info: Use the restroom, grab water, purchase drinks or snacks, stretch, and free-mingle!

Event Venue & Nearby Stays

El Santo, 970 Farmington Avenue, West Hartford, United States

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