About this Event
This is a curated, social-first experience—each guest attends with a friend to create a more natural, connected atmosphere. Please share your friend’s name and email at least 72 hours before the event.
Welcome to Refined and Ready — a speed dating experience for gay men 40 and wiser who are ready for meaningful connection.
If you're someone who:
- Values emotional maturity and intellectual alignment
- Has done therapy (or you're still in it)
- Prioritizes your self-care and wellbeing
- And craves connection with someone who truly gets it…
Then this is your night.
Set in an upscale lounge space (Parker's at Thompson Central Park) with a signature cocktail on us, you’ll meet like-minded men who want more than a flirt — they’re ready for a future. Whether it’s sparks or deep resonance, you'll walk away having made real contact with real men.
What’s Included:
- One signature cocktail for each attendee
- 15+ mini-dates with like-minded, relationship-minded men
- A vibe that’s classy, curious, and connection-focused
- Option to stay for same night 15% discount at Parker's Restaurant
- Your private "match" reveal via email post-event
This isn’t a free-for-all. It’s a curated experience for men who’ve done the work — and are ready to meet someone who's on the same playing field.
Event Venue & Nearby Stays
Parker's at Thompson Central Park, 119 West 56th Street, New York, United States
USD 87.00 to USD 99.00
