About this Event
//about\\
we love how it feels: witty banter flowing, eye contact, light touches, in sync laughter. it's ELECTRIC - and seemingly effortless.
…but what's actually happening in those moments?
and how do you create more of them?
And why do so many of us feel like its so outta reach?
spoiler: a good flirt is not a personality type you either have or you don't.
Its a skill. and like any skill, it can be learned, practiced, + felt in the body - not just understood in the head.
in this session, we're getting into what flirting actually is and how to start playing with it again in a way that feels like you, and connects you w integrity to another.
//the evening\\
over the course of a 90 minute workshop, we’ll shift between instructional / didactic learning – and putting the teachings into practice.
that will look like:
- landing in the room together
- getting into the theory: what flirting actually is + what gets in the way
- somatic work: tuning into your body, building trust in your own signals
- paired + group work: low-stakes practice with real humans in real time
- reflection + share-out
attendees are welcome to arrive as early as 630 to mingle + hang; workshop time is 7 - 830p.
// more from the feels \\
for those who love to truly dive deep, we also offer an online course for anyone wanting to better understand and navigate modern dating. it covers the history of how we got here, why it feels so challenging right now, and offers practical tools to show up differently. it includes video lessons, a workbook, and a curated reading list -- and its the best way we can think of, to prep for your level 1 experience. its $79 and available here.
//about Allie Hoffman, MArts, Psychology.\\
For nearly 20 years, Allie's work has focused on systems change. In her 30’s, Allie ran a digital marketing agency; media she produced or directed has been viewed more than 150 million times, and changed laws in 33 different states.
In 2021, Allie transitioned from building digital --> IRL movements, and began focusing exclusively at the intersection of modern dating x inner work x community. Her flagship offering, 'the feels', was launched in Aug 2022 and since then has hosted over 8000 singles in NYC, LA, SF, DC, Philly, Chicago + Miami.
On a weekly basis, Allie speaks 1:1 to an average of 5 singles on account of the feels matchmaking clients, further expanding + deepening her understanding of the modern dating landscape.
Allie also publishes a Substack that is read by thousands; in addition to press coverage that ‘the feels’ has received in the New York Times, the Los Angeles Times, USA Today and many more, Allie’s media appearances include Fox32 Chicago, Fox 29 Philadelphia, the Hollywood Hamilton Show, the News Movement, and her speaking appearances include Summit at Sea, and Northwestern University Kellogg’s School of Management, plus more.
Allie holds a Masters Degree in Spiritual Psychology from Columbia University. To follow her on IG: @alliehoffman.
// our partners \\
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Event Venue & Nearby Stays
Baci Studio, 55 Anchorage Place, Brooklyn, United States
USD 64.30 to USD 74.89






