Women's wellness circle to talk about sex, stigma, pleasure and autonomy

Sun Aug 21 2022 at 11:00 am to 01:00 pm

530 Euclid Ave | Toronto

Women's wellness circle to talk about sex, stigma, pleasure and autonomy In this women's circle, we will converse over tea and snacks, old school style ;) and talk all things sex, pleasure, stigma & autonomy
About this Event

Feminists, what were they thinking? If you've watched the documentary on Netflix, you probably recognize that Feminists and women in the late 1900s were having important conversations about their rights and evolving societal role in conferences, universities, art schools, the streets, and most importantly, in each other's living rooms. Today, we're having less and less of these conversations.

In the last few years, I've had talked to hundreds of women about sex, religion and/or culture, the stigma around female pleasure, sex education and exposure to pornography that is made for the male gaze, and how all of the above impacted their view of themselves and their partner in the context of sex. We've talked about the journey they've been on in their sex lives, and whether or not they feel comfortable asking for what they want in and outside of the bedroom. We've discussed the orgasm gap and the challenges of communicating with a partner, especially when so many of us have a tonne of unlearning to do around sex, pleasure and shaming. And all of this started when one day 2 years ago, I learned that for years my partners and I were not alone in bed. There were always 3 of us: me, him, and patriarchy.

What to expect: This is a old-timey, meet for tea and connection in my living room, that'll remind you of the stories you've heard about similar settings in the 60s from your grandmothers where they met with other women and talked about issues that were front and center for them, and perhaps also glimpses of important conversations held in University women's centers and LGBTQ centers across Canada and beyond. We'll talk about everything that's mentioned above, about healing, and about where we go from here. There will be sharing, laughter, and perhaps some tears and hugs, whatever feels natural and human in our process.

About me: I'm an experienced circle host and and wellness facilitator, and this event is focused on sharing, caring, wellness and propelling growth. I'm a cis- female and identify as bisexual.

About you: You are a woman. You recognize that the society we live in stigmatizes women's sexuality unless it is used for capitalism or for male gaze, and women have yet to achieve sexual autonomy. More importantly than the political aspect of this, you recognize that this is also a personal journey for you, me, and every woman out there, and my, your, and our collective liberation, pleasure, and joy is up to us. This is a LGBTQ+ and Trans positive space, because patriarchy plays a role in all of our sex lives, regardless of our sexual orientation. This is a space for sisters. To be, to talk, to hold each other.

Note: my personal experience is heavily weighed on having this conversation with women who are sexually attracted to men, so if you do not belong to this group, I want you to be aware that I am conscious of my biases and limitations, and intend to support you to the best of my abilities.

Intentions for the space and regulations: Listen with attention, speak with intention. We're in this space to support each other, to share, and care. While disagreements are welcomed, I expect sensitivity on your behalf to not disrupt someone's personal experiences and perceptions with opinions. Disagreements and dialogue is important for us all to grow, and they are welcomed, but kindly use your best judgement, or check in with me after the session if you're uncertain or would prefer to discuss privately. Anyone who does not follow these regulations will be asked to leave.

About the space: We're meeting in my home, though if we have more attendees than I can accommodate, we'll walk over to Bickford Park. I'll make some tea and have some fruit, and you're encouraged to bring snacks.

Donations are welcome. Suggested amount is $25.

COVID pointers: You are welcome to be comfortable with or without the use of a mask. Everyone is encouraged to use hand-washing stations when you attend. I'll provide plates and mugs but if you'd feel more comfortable, you're encouraged to bring your own mug and plate, a camping set works great for these settings! If you have symptoms and/or have been in touch with anyone who is COVID positive in the last 10 days, you're encouraged to send me a message and I'll make sure you're invited to a future event.

COVID Disclosure: I was traveling recently so my recent COVID test was on July 31st and it was negative. I have a copy of the test for you if you'd like to see it.

Mental Health Disclosure: I am not a mental health professional and this topic can be sensitive and triggering for many, including me, and the space is catered to caring for you, however, since I am not a healthcare professional, I will have a list of resources available should you feel triggered and in need of speaking to a professional.

Note: This space doesn't negate the need for similar spaces for men. We all need to talk about sex and the stigmas that exist and are perpetuated in our current sexual behaviours. If you're a man and/or someone interested in hosting/having conversations in similar spaces with men, you're encouraged to reach out and if our intentions around healing match, I'll see what we can create!

Cell phone use: cell phone use is limited to necessity only, due to the sensitive nature of the conversations we'll have, taking photos or videos without someone's permission is not permitted.

Event Venue

530 Euclid Ave, 530 Euclid Avenue, Toronto, Canada

Tickets

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