Wing "man"

Wed Jan 21 2026 at 07:00 pm to 09:00 pm UTC-05:00

Fiddlesticks Pub | New York

Luna
Publisher/HostLuna
Wing "man"
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Wing “man” is a queer speed dating/community-expanding event built on the idea that there is no sexy way to eat a wing.
About this Event

So much time gets wasted in dating/new friendships trying to present an incredibly well-manicured (physically/spiritually/mentally) version of ourselves. We often let people down, or feel let down when our true, messy selves eventually come out. Well, let’s skip past as much of that nonsense as possible, and get MESSY together!

With a face and hands covered in buffalo sauce, it may alleviate some of the pressure, pretense, fear, and exhausting posturing that can come with meeting new people- especially when your potential connection is covered in sauce too!

For all bodies, gender expressions, relationship styles and sexualities, grab a friend or partner as your Wing ‘man’.

How it Works:

First, you sign up with a friend. Once you arrive, you’ll have a plate of wings. Each wing corresponding to the pair of people you’re both about to meet. Cheers your wings, dig in, and dive deep! Under each wing will be a question/conversation starter intended to help you put aside “perfect”, and welcome the real you to the table.

At the end of the night, you will have a questionnaire with everyone you met listed- you can chose: interested in friendship, interesting in dating, all of the above, or none of the above. If there is overlap on desire, we will pair you up with your new connection- someone we hope will be a safe space for you to be your beautifully, perfectly messy self.


*********CONSENT AGREEMENT***********
At our events, it is ESSENTIAL that consent and boundaries are taken seriously. Our goal is to foster a supportive, safe space for people to connect. If someone isn't feeling you, or a topic is making someone uncomfortable, just stop! By signing up for this event, you agree to be kind and respectful, and follow these simple consent guidelines. We reserve the right to remove anyone at anytime from the event for violating this agreement. Just be a good vibe!!!

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Event Venue & Nearby Stays

Fiddlesticks Pub, 56 Greenwich Avenue, New York, United States

Tickets

USD 39.19

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