An conscious dating event for those in search of deeper connection.About this Event
// about \\
Created by Allie Hoffman as part of her masters degree thesis work at Columbia University’s Spirit Mind Body Institute, ‘the feels’ is a 3-hour evening that includes an 80 minute facilitated experience.
The format builds off the work of Carl Jung, Joseph Campbell, Dr Martha Eddy, the Buddha + the Tavistock Institute - among others.
‘The feels’ level 1 experience guides you through pairings that include meditations, prompts, positive reflections, and somatic elements like eye gazes + hugs.
‘The feels’ believes that =>
- Better relating is possible.
- Your body holds infinite wisdom, and tapping into that to determine if you want to connect deeper with someone, gives you more valuable ‘information’ than head-based read outs like where someone lives or where they work;
- Online dating has left us treating each other badly; the way back is to show up with kindness, and care – which we facilitate you into expressions of;
- Co-regulation is a powerful place to be – and we’re here to help you experience it;
- Discomfort is OK. We believe if you’re able to sit at the edge of discomfort, and self-soothe - that it empowers a sense of self and pride that fortifies you;
- If all you do at ‘the feels’ is write a love letter to you - we’re really happy w that. We don’t promise you that you’ll meet the love of your life - but we can guarantee that you’ll walk away with a sense of your own amazing’ness. We’re really here for that.
More things to know about ‘the feels’ =>
- Our facilitators are professionals holding masters degrees (or higher) in the fields of mental health, movement, therapy, performance, and sexual health - among others;
- Your ticket includes unlimited light bites, alcoholic + non alc beverage options;
- Since inception + in partnership with Columbia, survey data we have collected shows that 70% of all ‘feels’ level 1 attendees will walk out the contact info for someone they’re excited about;
- We’re here to build a community of people who believe - like we do - that its possible to treat each other better. Your purchasing this ticket opens that world to you. We bring it to life via WhatsApp communities + a series of offerings only available to Level 1 alumni.
Want to learn more?
Peek the website.
Read the White Paper on the format.
Read about us in the NYTimes.
Read bout us in Thrillist and Philly Mag.
// the who \\
this edition of the feels is for those who are ISO queer connection. It's open to all sexual orientations and gender identities within in the LGBTQIA+ community.
It’s designed for those who are -baseline- comfortable attending, knowing that consent-based, non-erotic touch is incorporated at various points throughout the evening as part of the somatic pair exercises. Modifications are always available for anyone who does not consent to touch.
the events are inclusive of ages 25-55; if you fall out of those ranges, please know we’re working on an age segmented ‘feels’ for you!
// ticket price accomodation \\
If you have a desire to attend but your financial resources are limited, please email us at [email protected] and we’ll do our best to accommodate.
// please note \\Tickets are non-refundable, and we no longer allow transfers to future events. For more information on the 'what' and the 'why', please visit our . If you have any questions about accessibility, please be sure to check out our before purchasing a ticket.
However, you’re welcome to transfer your ticket to the same event in the same category. For example, if you purchased a Female ticket for NY Feels 12, you can transfer or sell it to another female attendee for that same event. You are responsible for finding a replacement. Once the switch is confirmed, please email us their name and email.
While we typically don't offer credits for future events, we’re more flexible with our Queer and ENM events as we continue to grow those communities.
For further questions on ticket transfers please refer to our .
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Event Venue
120 Walker St, 120 Walker Street, New York, United States
USD 101.90 to USD 105.08
