Speed Dating Ages 30-45 in New Haven, CT at The Bar at Firehouse 12

Ditch the swiping and come meet real, local singles in person!

If you're tired of the same old routine, this is your chance to mix things up, meet new people, and have fun putting yourself out there! Our speed dating events make it easy and natural to spark connections—without the pressure of a full date.

Note on Age Range: While this event is primarily focused on singles in the age range specified in the title, this is only a suggestion—not a strict requirement. If you're slightly outside this range but feel you'd connect well with this group, you're welcome to join! Our goal is to create well-balanced events where everyone can meet compatible matches.

Casual Mixer Kickoff: The night starts with a relaxed mingle where you can grab a drink (not included, but encouraged) and ease into the atmosphere before the dating rounds begin.

Guided Conversations: Not great at starting conversations? No worries! We provide an icebreaker question each round, and our high-energy host keeps things flowing smoothly.

Perfect-Length Connections: You'll have just enough time with each person to feel out their vibe before moving on to meet someone new—all in a positive, supportive, lighthearted, pressure-free atmosphere.

Simple Matching System: After each round, simply mark "friend," "date," or "none" on our easy matching system. Mutual matches receive contact info the next day!

• Arrive 15–30 minutes early to settle in! We start promptly, and late arrivals may not be accommodated.
• Remember:This event is all about active listening, learning, and exploring connections. While many attendees do meet someone special, the key to enjoying the experience is focusing on meeting new people without specific expectations.
• Venue Note: The event will be held at The Bar at Firehouse 12, a welcoming and accessible space with an elevator available for anyone who may need it.

Space is limited to ensure quality interactions and a balanced group. Reserve your spot now!

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Age Guidelines & Inclusivity

The age range for this event is a general recommendation. We welcome all participants regardless of age or gender and do not verify this information at check-in.We do not perform background checks on participants, so please exercise your own judgment when meeting new people, just as you would on any dating platform.Our goal is to create a welcoming and enjoyable environment for everyone.

Gender Balance & Attendance Disclaimer

We work hard to maintain a balanced ratio of male and female attendees by carefully managing ticket releases. However, we cannot guarantee exact gender ratios at the event, as last-minute no-shows are beyond our control.

No refunds will be issued due to uneven gender balance.

To reduce no-shows, we have a three-strike policy — anyone who misses three events without notice may be banned from attending future events.

We believe a positive mindset goes a long way — your experience is what you make of it, and many guests have a great time regardless of the final numbers.

Event Changes & Cancellations

We reserve the right to postpone or cancel events with insufficient registrations.If this happens, you'll receive either a full refund or the option to transfer your ticket to another event.

Waitlist Information

When events sell out, join our waitlist through Eventbrite.You'll receive an email notification when spots become available and can then secure your ticket through our Eventbrite page.

Important: Tickets must be purchased through Eventbrite only. We do not accept payment at the venue on event day.

Accessibility Notice

Some venues may not have elevators or full accessibility features.If you need specific accommodations, please contact us at before purchasing your ticket so we can confirm availability at that location.

Safety & Liability

By attending, you agree that participation is at your own risk.You release Sips and Sparks LLC, our team, venues, and partners from liability for any accidents, injuries, or damages that may occur during or after the event, including from interactions with other participants.

Photography & Social Media

We may take photos and videos during events for promotional purposes.By attending, you consent to being photographed and having your image used in our marketing materials.

Don't want to be in photos? Simply let our event host know when you arrive, and we'll make sure to respect your privacy.

Refund Policy1+ week before event: Full refund guaranteed (minus Eventbrite processing fees).For refunds, email us at .

Info: Check in to find your seat, name tag, and pull up the match sheet we'll be using throughout the event. Enjoy free mingling during this time to break the ice and get to know other attendees!

Info: Use the restroom, grab water, purchase drinks or snacks, stretch, and free-mingle!

Event Venue & Nearby Stays

Firehouse 12, 45 Crown Street, New Haven, United States

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