Relating Well: From Attraction to Repair with Expert Vana Koutsomitis

Wed Feb 11 2026 at 06:00 pm to 07:30 pm UTC-05:00

FLOK NYC | New York

FLOK NYC
Publisher/HostFLOK NYC
Relating Well: From Attraction to Repair with Expert Vana Koutsomitis
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An intimate, conversation-led evening exploring attraction, attachment, and nervous system safety in our relationships
About this Event

Join Vana Koutsomitis—relationship expert featured on television and in HuffPost, Goop, and Fortune—for an intimate 90-minute evening that will change how you understand attraction, attachment, and what actually creates lasting connection.

As a matchmaker who introduced nine couples now married, Vana spent years identifying what makes relationships work. But when her own marriage ended, she had to rebuild everything she thought she knew about attraction, safety, and emotional availability. That combination—professional expertise meeting personal reckoning—is what makes her guidance uniquely grounded and transformative.

Most relationship advice tells you what to think. This evening shows you what's happening in your body and gives you tools to work with it.

You'll discover:

  • Why you're attracted to who you're attracted to—and how to tell if it's chemistry or just activation
  • The relational patterns you keep repeating (and how to interrupt them)
  • What nervous system safety actually feels like—and why it matters more than passion
  • Simple, body-based practices you can use the next time you're triggered, shut down, or in conflict

This isn't theory. It's lived experience, matchmaking insight, and practical tools you'll leave with and actually use.

For singles, people dating, those in relationships (married or not), and anyone healing from heartbreak. 

Space is limited.


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Event Venue & Nearby Stays

FLOK NYC, 1283 Madison Avenue, New York, United States

Tickets

USD 55.00 to USD 65.00

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